Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Wednesday October 1, 2008


Best Part of the Day-
My first-born is 5!!!  She LIVES for birthdays.  You could say "yeah, what kid doesn't?"  Well I never liked mine so I've always been in awe of how much this child loves hers...
Anyhoo, today was Birthday Kick-Off day as it seems to go with kids these days--it is a many day celebration of life and gifts and sweets.  (Big party in 11 days when Will-O is back in town for a day.)
Scarlet was dressed head-to-toe in birthday declaring gear:  shirt, hat, frilly skirt that screams par-tay and a ribbon stating the facts--I am 5.  
I delivered cupcakes to her class for the morning snack and it was the cutest.  Scarlet was beaming with pride as it was her special day, I was her mom and these were her cupcakes to share with her class.  She told me after school that I had made the best choice by getting a mix of vanilla and chocolate cake with a choice of frosting colors AND gender neutral rings imbedded in the frosting.  Whew.    

Worst Part of the Day-
I experienced a mini "grieving day" today.  I kept hearing about this from friends who have gone through a similar marriage situation and today was the day.  It was not a bad sadness, it was perhaps a necessary release of sadness:  why is it like this, why are you/we not normal, how did this happen?  I had tears streaming down my face for a good 60 minutes.  Don't worry--it was well after the cupcake delivery and way before picking up the kids.  

1 comment:

Danny Freedom said...

My fifth birthday was Awesome. I had a bunch of family members back from Vietnam (and I am not talking sightseeing).

I received my first Notre Dame football jersey. And I had a cake the shape of a football. Interesting that I can remember 5 but have not recollection of birthdays 6-15.