Thursday October 30, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Got a call during my four child-free hours today - that IMP was in major pain from diaper rash (OH LAWD - when will this end???) So I grabbed him and decided as long as he was in pain ... why not a flu shot? We walk into the clinic and I start filling in his info at the computer kisok. Then this old, crotchety man watches me and says "are you checking in? I didn't know you were supposed to do that and I was here FIRST!" And for one second I about said "too freakn' bad old dude." But I give him a dirty look and sigh loudly and let him (S-L-O-W-L-Y) fill out his info.

Best Part of the Day - Parentals arrive. SB soooo excited to see them.
Also that Erik - he called to say he was going to be late just to keep the peace and I think that is truly swell o' him. Gold Star for him. Maybe two stars. All is back to peaceful chaos in the household.

Thursday October 30, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

As there was no school today for teacher conferences Scarlet went to Day 1 of Halloween Camp at the Y.  When I picked her up she said, "Mom, I had a serious blast today."  They did fall-themed arts and crafts, carved pumpkins, went swimming, played basketball, went rock climbing (well, rock wall) and played/ate outside.  Whew.  You gotta love super fun people entertaining your child all day without the use of any screen time. 

Worst Part of the Day-

I am in the process of switching cable/internet companies.  This is taking numerous phone calls, going into offices (with a wild boy not loving being strapped into his stroller) and waiting, waiting, waiting.   

Wednesday October 29, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My wallet was found in a parking lot by an elderly couple.  Who knew I even lost it?  Thank heavens regardless!!!  I love honest people!  Perhaps all of my do-gooding of yesteryear is paying off?

Worst Part of the Day-

I arrived to my doctor's appointment 15 minutes early to fill out paperwork as they requested.  I was showered, my clothes matched and for heaven's sake I was frickin early!  Too bad my appointment is October 30 and today is the 29th....oh yeah--that's right.

Happy Birthday to Cuz Kelly!!!!!!  (The hottest 40 year-old I know!!)

Wednesday October 29, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - This is lame-o ... but I went to Group Power and we had a preview of the "new release" (they do a new release every six weeks or so). And the songs all sucked. Now WHAT do I have to look forward to regarding group power? Also IMP not happy in the child care - but he did let me get through the work out at least.

Best Part of the Day - The final speech evaluation was today - this is to determine eligibility. Then we can (finally) get an actual speech path to meet with SB on a regular basis. So he was (surprise!) found eligible for speech services. But he was not found eligible for Occupational Therapy services and, I think, that is excellent news. And again, the evaluating speech path is now sure that SB just has an articulation issue - he is understanding everything. I put this into practice today. Very clearly I said "we cannot get out the tunnel until you put away your blocks." And after a short stand off .... he put the blocks away. Love it! Too long I fell back on "he just doesn't understand" when really he was just waiting for me to do it.

Also extended the Olive Branch to Erik and while he tried to break it, I shoved it back in his face. And while he is still annoyed with me - at least I know I've done what I could.

Tuesday October 28, 2008

Best Part of the Day - My parents are coming to visit on Thursday, so I was uber organized and productive. I grocery shopped, vacuumed and even steam cleaned our carpets (wow did they need it, the water was BLACK in the steam vac). It felt good to actually feel accomplished while the boys were in school.
Also - here's hoping our fridge is now fixed! The dude came over at 9 p.m. (!) but then said "huh, I may have just put in a freezer thermostat." Huh.

Worst Part of the Day - OH getting those boyz in their outfits for picture day at the preschool. The don't like the button up shirts so much and IMP kept taking off his shoes. It was tough work, but they did look utterly adorable. But then IMP's teacher told me he wept throughout the entire process ... sigh.
Erik and I still not speaking - and the funny thing is I thought that he would come home and we could just talk it over, but then he arrives home at 6:30 p.m. without calling to say he'd be late. I mean, there are children involved! Can we not at least be civil? This peacemaker is tired.

Monday October 27, 2008

Best Part of the Day - A crisp, gorgeous day - the boyz and I were out and about. We were at the playground and I had the nicest chat with a woman with two little boys. I swear, it was like talking to someone I already knew. And when she used the word "brutal" to describe her last year, I knew we could be pals.

Worst Part of the Day - I made a new meal for the boyz (am trying to expand their palates and I hear it takes up to 10 times of serving a new item for them to eat it). Well as I'm trying to get the boys to eat this bread ... this turns into a fight betwix Erik and I. I think he is being overly snotty, but I also feel like I'm overreacting. So I go to apologize to him, thinking he will apologize back and it will be fintito. Just two stressed peeps during the highly stressful toddler dinner hour. But he brushes off my apology and brushes past me. So now I'm actually mad. Nice.

Tuesday October 28, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Liam is a sweet as he now says, "Dank doo, Mama" (the Mama addition is pretty new) whenever I hand him any item.  I hand him hundreds of things throughout the day and he says his thanks each time and of course I must follow-up with "you are welcome."   It's like our new little verbal dance:  Here's you shirt.  Dank doo, Mama.  You're welcome.  Here's your socks.  Dank doo, Mama.  You are welcome.  Here is a spoon.  Dank doo, Mama.  You are welcome.  It is a bit over the top, but at least there are a ton of thanks going on in this home.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I don't think I have had any straight up water today.  I've had coffee, diluted lemonade, and super weak grape juice.  All I want as a type is a Miller High Life Lite--to further dehydrate myself...   Why am I not the least bit thirsty?

Monday October 27, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I received a call that our soccer practice was to be cancelled due to the fact it was SNOWING. (Almost non-existent light flurries, actually.)  Though I am no fan o' snow in October, my closeted rebellious side LIVES for classes or practices of any kind getting cancelled.  (It makes me feel like I am skipping the obligation and this makes me want to swill beer...)  I then cheerfully called my two family member babysitters who were scheduled as a tag team this eve (Babs and then Cuz S.--well, 'cause Babs was free only until a certain time and then her packed social calendar called for Cuz. S. as relief) and was pleased to inform them I would not be needing their lovely child care services today.  (But I would be hitting them up soon!)

Worst Part of the Day-

My cell phone was ringing this afternoon and I saw the name "Mike" and thought Oh great, my brother, Mike--I was just thinking of him and need to talk to him 'cause I finally booked tix to Portland and we need to talk about it, blah, blah, blah...  I gleefully answered the phone and even though I have NEVER answered the phone like this before, I was feeling wily and surprised even myself by asking, "What up, Bitch?!"  Mike was slow to respond on the other end and then I heard a quiet voice ask, "Megan???  Coach Megan?"  Gasp, gasp, gasp, gasp.  I realized in an ugly nanosecond that it was my Assistant Coach for pee-wee soccer--yeah, that Mike...not artsy, beatnik brother Mike who would've laughed at my greeting.  This was straight-laced, YMCA Mike who was highly confused by my profane phone skills....oopsies. Major uncomfortable silence..........................But still, I guess it doesn't hurt to know--What is up, Bitch??  Ahh-ite, soccer practice cancelled.  Yo.  Word.  Late.  Out.  

Sunday October 26, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Excellent, challenging yoga class (this is oft not the case with my gym yoga - but this teacher is dead serious. I do think she might share a bit too much of her personal life, i.e. I know she just got divorced and her ex is not being cooperative with her credit issues regarding buying a home. Geesh.) But she an excellent teacher in that she really makes it HARD so you feel it the next day - and is always trying new things too.
In the late afternoon we headed to Uncle Chris and Aunt Ann's house for a BBQ. All four young boys played SO well together - they just entertained each other and SB was copying Jack's every move (which wasn't always a good thing, but hilarious nonetheless.) It was a low key event full of chips, beers and fun.

Worst Part of the Day - After putting SB to bed at 8 p.m. I laid down and suddenly it was 9:30 p.m. Oh man. I'm just so tired lately. It's not a great feeling when you only have so many hours to yourself each day.

Saturday October 25, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Erik was at the airport waiting for his flight and got screwed regarding the standby list and we were talking about this and then about the kids and then about other things and suddenly I realized that we had talked for a hour and the boys had entertained themselves and each other the entire time (and this is without tv, peeps). Our conversation only stopped when Erik's cellie ran out o' juice. Wow - hopefully this be a sign of things to come and not just a FREAK anomaly.

Worst Part of the Day - The fridge is off and on, off and on, off and on. The poor ole Ben and Jerry's Pumpkin Cheesecake Ice cream had been soup four times now. Sigh - guess I can't delay the phone call to the landlord any longer. (Times like this make me LOVE having a landlord :-)

Today it felt like Sunday all day ... I'm really messed up on the days of the week.

Sunday October 26, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

Who would guess Round #1 of Trick or Treat would be today's Worst Part? The kids were a lot to handle--Scarlet was feeling "shy" (you are kidding me!) and Liam wanted to run anywhere and everywhere he should not. I had complete strangers offering to help me or hold things as it was apparent I did not have a handle on the situation. Liam reflexively shoved each received piece of candy into his mouth with the wrapper on and then attempted to walk into each and every home. Therefore I had to disrupt the smooth line of kids waiting to receive their entitled treat by pushing myself in between the confused kids to extract Liam from each and every doorway/vestibule. Each person handing out the candy would say the same thing: "Whoa, not in there Little Guy!" and they would be perplexed that Liam would truly want to enter their home. Each time I would scoop him up and he would cry and the people would stare. This went on for a long while--at every damn home.

Scarlet was ill prepared for the vast dip in temperature (well everyone was) and was freezing at the end of the hour and a half journey for sweets. ("But witches don't wear sweaters!!!") She ended up being carried by one of the dads as I was tied up carrying Liam roughly 12 blocks (biceps were burning.) Another mom ended up carrying both of my kids' bags and props. I have to admit it was not that fun. I owe all of the helpful adults--big time.

Between the hours of 4pm and 6pm, my costume morphed from a slick Andy Warhol to a very realistic tired/deflated Mommie Dearest, Scarlet went from a cute witch to a Bosnian refugee, and Liam went from the most adorable bumblebee ever to the messiest-faced bee (and most crazed/non-compliant trick of treater) ever. At least I will be clued in to these shenanigans when we attempt Round 2 of T. or T. this Friday...

Best Part of the Day-

1. Meeting Cuz S. and Boston visitors Joe and Stacy for brunch this noon (I was a full hour late--very par.) Wonderful to see the out-of-town family and my kids were thrilled to see "Luscious Peaches" (Scarlet's colorful pet name for Joe) and Stacy in our home for a lil' play time prior to their flight. Liam wept serious tears for minutes and minutes after they departed.

2. Pea Pod grocery delivery service. I love you, internet shopping! I love you, right to my door delivery! I love you, one less task for me to do!!!

Saturday October 25, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Liam initiated sitting on his mini potty, said "pee pee" and then instantly went pee pee.  Thank god.  Someone is listening and something may be sinking in.

Worst Part of the Day-

Overview:  Lots of screeching and screaming and whining--ALL DAY--and mostly Scarlet--what is up?  Liam copies every darn thing she does so I can see this mayhem exponentially increasing. WHY? WHAT?  

Specific example (1 of 50 incidents today):  Scarlet has a new concern with "privacy" while changing and will slam her bedroom door after sprinting in the room to change outfits.  (She changes full outfits roughly 5 times daily.)  I've told her billions of times "no door slamming, please!".  Liam of course follows her into each room and whether she is changing or not.  This morning she accidentally slammed both sets of his little fingers in the door.  He was screaming, she was crying 'cause she didn't mean it, and I almost lost it.  (It was only 9am.)

Later I calmly told her that there is a reason why parents like me repeatedly instruct things like "no door slamming, please."  It is not stated to annoy her, among other reasons it is stated to avoid little fingers from getting crunched (and ultimately to avoid further screaming and crying.)  We made an agreement that when mom is about to lose her mind (from instructing things that are blatantly ignored), I will utter our mutually agreed upon Mad Mommy Code Word of "weinerschnitzel".  Scarlet will know that she must get it together when she hears this word.  She admitted, "it's a funny word, so it will probably make me laugh and then I will listen."  

Should it really have to come to Code Words?  Can't a child simply obey?????   

WEINERSCHNITZEL!

Friday October 24, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Liam went to his sitter's today and he seemed overjoyed to go and play with his buddies after not seeing them for a week.  It allowed me time to clean and organize to my heart's content.  I cleaned out my sock and undie drawers and closet as well as Scarlet's overflowing and difficult to shut dresser drawers.  I packed up 2 huge bag o' goodies for GoodWill.  Whew.

Worst Part of the Day

When one's Best Part of the Day is cleaning out undie drawers, ya know it was pretty lame diddy lamesville.

Cutest Comments of the Day-

1.)  Liam now says "Oh boy!" instead of "uh oh" to all of his spills (intentional and accidental).  He says it much like someone who speaks English as a second language.  He puts the accent on boy (oh-BOY) and it is smile-inducing.  Even as I am on my hands and knees cleaning up whatever mess he has made...

2.)  Scarlet was describing another boy in her class (not the John Lennon look-a-like).  She said, "He has the sweetest face--just like Obama's."  I know this boy from the pumpkin farm field trip last week and he really does look like a 5 year-old Obama.  Good call, S.

Thursday October 23, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O has left for 25 days of touring.  There is peace and calm.

The kids and I (or shall I just say "I") carved pumpkins.  The seeds were roasted, a homemade pumpkin soup made and the kidlets were jacked up to see the lit jack-o-lanterns flashing in the dark night.  Extensive fall fun.

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O left on the WORST possible note (ever).

Liam has been balking his daily nap and he continues the sleepless shenanigans today. Da-hude.

Friday October 24, 2008

Best Part of the Day - We found this Nature Discovery Museum that was recommended to me by my neighbor and it is PERFECT. It is right by our newfound playground which is also most excellent. The level is perfect for the 1 and a half to five year old set. IMP could not get over the birds, turtles, snakes and butterflies - he kept exclaiming "look there!" in a baby outdoor screech. But it cracked me up. SB loved the interactive butterfly screen (finally a computer he is allowed to touch!) They both had fun, fun running around on this rainy, chilly Friday. We got a membership and I think we'll be spending lots o' time there.

Worst Part of the Day - Both boyz spent a majority of their day in time out. I think they might have slight colds (I know I have a sore throat and some minor aches). It seems the littlest things are setting them (and me truth be told) off. This discipline sucks - they often laugh right in my face. But they don't laugh when I put them in the "naughty crib" and close the door. That they no likee. So it's up and down, up and down, up and down .... mama's tired.

I thought it was Saturday all day - it really has me confused.

Thrusday October 23, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Got my hair cut n' colored (finally!) They also had this woman walking around giving hand massages and that was nice. But the best part (after getting my dense locks thinned the hell out) was just sitting, drinking that lovely Aveda tea and reading mindless magazines. Zen.
Also Erik leaves tonight for a course and so I get to just relax, watch Buffy's and go to bed early.

Worst Part of the Day - Getting the boys out of the house this morning felt like it took an army of one (me). Man o man. The woman who cut my hair today has two boys who are 7 and 8 years old (14 months apart) and so we exchanged war stories. She said that she didn't go anywhere for the first two years - literally not anywhere. I hear ya, sista.

Wednesday October 22, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Had SB's speech appointment and it's just amazing how well he is doing!! The speech path said his fine motor skills are better than every other kiddo she works with (they made a speech spider today and he did all sorts of gluing and threading). She said she is just about 100% percent sure that it is an articulation issue ONLY which is .... really, really great news. After the appointment we went to our new favorite park and played in the crisp sunshiney day.

Worst Part of the Day - The morning workout got scrapped due to the speech appointment and I could not get myself motivated to go in the afternoon. Too dern lazy.

Wednesday October 22, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Working out, getting ready at the gym (I took an hour of leisurely readying time!!!) and then heading straight out to meet friends out for drinks. On a Wednesday!! 'Cause we're adults and we can. (Also 'cause Will-O leaves tomorra for 23 days and then I have to do that pick-up the sitter thang...) Super fun and I was good with my 3 drink maximum. Yay for friends. Yay for talking without miscommunication and misinterpretation!! Yay for not needing to drive sitters home!!

Worst Part of the Day-

Well, aside from some thug stealing my license plate off the back of my car...I felt confused today. I didn't know if I wanted to laugh, cry, scream or just take a nap...I need a therapist, perhaps to help me sift.

Tuesday October 21, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - With four kid-free hours I got ... grocery shopping done. Boooo. Tried to get a flu shot, but the wait was too long. Also a kiddo in IMP's preschool class has hand, foot, mouth disease. Bleach! Oh please oh please don't let them get it (and not just because I (finally) have a hair cut n' color on Thursday).

Best Part of the Day - Relaxin' at the end of the day with Erik and a bottle o' beer and some mindless tv. Note: must get out more in the evening. But how?

Tuesday October 21, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Scarlet was not the least bit phased by Will-O's "forgetting" to pick her up at the bus stop. Note:  school district policy does not allow any K-4 or K-5 kids to be let off at the stop without a parent there (duh) even though it is pretty much 2 houses away.  When a parent is not at a stop immediately, the bus and kids wait 7 minutes and then go about their bus business of dropping off more kids.  They come back one more time and then if there is still no parent, they drive the forlorn child to the school administration building where there is child care and keep calling parents to tell them to get their heads out of their asses and come get their kid.    

I, of course, did not make it a big blame game or even a big deal when I talked with S. about it. I simply said, "Hey I heard there was a snaffu about the bus pick-up yesterday...that is no good.  Just so ya know, that will never happen again as we (I) will always be there to get you."  S's response:  "I want it to happen again--it was fun.  I got to ride around and around on the bus and then I went to a child care place and played!  And then dad felt so bad for missing me at the stop, he took me to McDonald's (what?) and I got a strawberry shake (ahhhh--whipped chicken fat...I may puke!)  It was really exciting.  

Seriously, whew.

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O does not know why I am let down by his forgetting to pick up Scarlet (the ONE day I ask--as I have a day of AM work, prep for classes, teach 2 classes, coach soccer and then back to work!)  He does not know!!!!!   He says "everyone makes mistakes"  He feels I am "just mad at him again."  If it is not clear why I am down, I may be running out of steam and words to illuminate exactly why I have these feelings.  It has much to do with basic accountability, responsibility and trust, though.  And it's not like I have a general distrust in all of mankind...I am forgiving..and allow many chances...I am about to re-hire Porn Babysitter (heh heh) for this coming weekend, for heaven's sake--AND allow computer usage (when children are asleep 'cause it's not healthy for them to see 79 porn sites in an hour...)

Like my wise ol' G-Ma always says, "You can help how you behave, but you can't help how you feel."

Monday October 20, 2008

Best Part of the Day - This morning, we hit the gym, library, gas station and playground. Whew - if these two aren't tired, mama sure is.

Worst Part of the Day - After we got home from Hilton Head several weeks ago, we noticed that our fridge had frozen everything in it. So we turned it down a tich and went about our days. Then two days ago, Erik turned the temperature up as the fridge seemed warm and it slightly froze some items again. Then this morning .... the thing was not working at all. Uh oh. So I called the landlord and he came on over and tried to fix it .... then they were going to just buy a new one .... then they called a repair guy who was creepy, but did get 'er done. So we moved all our items back from coolers and here' s hoping it doesn't conk out again. Oh the things we take for granted each day ... I mean WHAT would we do without our two Danimal a day habit the boyz have going?

Sunday October 19, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Just a long afternoon at the homestead. Sigh, sigh ... when can you let kiddos play outdoors on their own again? Our yard is very cool, but it is not fenced in and after 20 minutes of outdoor time .... someone is always in danger (often me - danger of losing it while chasing them down a long ass driveway).

Best Part of the Day - With a slight suggestion from moi, Erik got up with the kiddos this morn. He is heading to the Panthers game later this morning, so I wouldn't want him to miss out on any adorable morning antics o' the offspring. Then we headed to a playground that a neighbor told me about and it rocked and rolled. It was all fenced in (trust me, IMP looked for an opening, but the perimeter is secure) and has two sets of jungle gyms, picnic area and swings. So a good brisk morning outing was had by all.

Monday October 20, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

This would be a toss up between having to confront my weekend babysitter (and her mom) about finding very inappropriate (i.e. blacksonblondes and lovelylesbian) websites (and many of them) from this past Friday night on my laptop AND getting a call during my weekly class that Will-O "forgot" to pick up Scarlet from the bus stop.  Yes, I was/am LIVID.  Universe--please get off my back.  Seriously.

Best Part of the Day-

Having the always awkward talk with above mentioned sitter and her mom (on 3-way call to make things more poetic) about porn and computers and teenagers and babysitting and moms-have-to-tell-other-moms-these-things...I am satisfied with the given explanation (the sitter really does not seems the "double life" type.)  It seems she logged onto Facebook (at 10:10pm as noted by computer history), then yahoo, then myspace, back to yahoo.  She opened a strange email and it was some creepy site.  She clicked on it and then tried to close the box and then more and more weird sites started popping up.  This does make sense as the history states she visited the sites  79 times in an hour and a half--unlikely for even the experienced adult site browser...Regardless, I enjoyed her candor and she did not appear sheepish or to be lying AT aLL--and I believe her.  Her mom was also helpful and not defensive or pulling the "not my child!" move.  We all thanked each other and we are in good standing again.  I am simply glad to clear this chat from my daily docket.

Sunday October 19, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My parents took the kids for yet another day of Fall Fun (I was lucky if I got one of these days per season in my youth...).  They went on a fall colors walk, a nature hike (two separate events, I'm told) and pumpkin carving.  The kids came home happy and exhilarated--as always.

This allowed uninterrupted napping and reading for me (I LOVE NAPS!-don't forget it) and also gave Will-O and I a chance to have calm conversations and even laugh and smile a bit at one another on our 6th anniversary.  Nice and easy.

Worst Part of the Day-

I was soooo sleepy driving back from my parents' (after delivering kiddos) that I thought I may fall asleep at the wheel.  I was avoiding coffee as I knew I would be snoozing at length when I arrived home.  It was a brutal 40 minute drive complete with slapping myself on the cheeks to stay with the program.

Saturday October 18, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Seeing Will-O's band on their Swill City stopover.  I haven't seen them for over a year now. (Well they haven't played here in over a year...)  Wow.  It was a sensational show with a focused (sober) singer and rockin band.  Great to see and hear the new stuff as well as the oldies.  A crowd pleaser, it was.  Confirmed what I have known for awhile:  Will-O is not so good with being a housekeeper.  Will-O is quite good at being a rocker (and all things that accompany rocking.)

www.ohmygodmusic.com

Worst Part of the Day-

I do not believe I have gone out 2 consecutive nights since prior to Scarlet's birth.  I was hurting all day...(can 1 martini really kick my ass that bad?)  Perhaps the 2am bedtime coupled with kids' 6am wake-up...also had to clean entire home during nap time as band was staying the night...and ready kids and self and get the sitter once again...whatever the reasons, I was fighting the Mrs. Exhaustion all day.  (I did not succumb!!)

Happy Birthday (Brother/Uncle/Soon-to-be Pops) Terry!!

Friday October 17, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Pretending to be a fashionista!  Headed to fashion show/runway madness at the art museum (where we designed our own cool crafty bags! and pondered who the hell are all of these super hip people in our city???)

Martinis (to make our G-ma proud) with Cuz S. atop the Pfister Hotel was a perfect ending to the swanky night.

Worst Part of the Day-

Repeat from last Friday:  The whole getting the kids fed, bathed, pj'd, self fed, bathed, dressed and picking up sitter in a small window of time.  (Yes, I am griping.)  It is a ton easier to leisurely ready oneself while an appointed person is going to pick up sitter (at least.)  Sheesh.  Admittedly I am a wus with this.

Thursday October 16, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O has resumed the touring.

Worst Part of the Day-

Liam chipped his 2 front teeth.  We were at the park this afternoon and I was following him up the steps to the slide (I am guilt-free about this one as I was right THERE and not sitting on the bench reading a mag...).  I guess there is a good reason to parks/playgrounds doing away with metal and moving toward all things plastic.  Liam tripped/slipped and banged his mouth on a metal step (such a gross sound) and voila--2 chipped teeth and 1 screaming kiddo.  One of the other moms present asked what happened and when I told her she said, "you mean right now?? He just chipped the teeth?  I'll call 911."  Ahh, no, that's o.k., it's not an emergency (i.e. baby teeth), just a serious bummer.

Worst of the worst--we had pretty much just arrived to the park when this happened and Sister S. was not too keen on leaving so soon.  When I explained we needed to go and get Little Guy comfy and re-evaluate she said, "Well my teeth are fine, so I'm going to stay."

Saturday October 18, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I do hate being soooo tired at the end of the day - but man, I'm exhausted! In bed by 9:45 p.m. on a Saturday? Lame-o, but I couldn't stay up another minute.

Best Part of the Day - We had Uncle Chris, Aunt Ann, Jack and Carson over for an outdoor pumpkin carving and painting party. We made spider pumpkins. We carved pumpkins. Erik and Chris were craft show creative creating evil and good snowman pumpkins. We fed the kids and then sat them in front of some television and then had a lovely dinner o' takeout and brews. Evening over at 8:25 p.m.

Friday October 17, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Lots of rain and too much tv.

Best Part of the Day - Erik home early and it's a good thing as we needed some new blood to jolt us out of our rainy day blues. He ended up taking the dog and IMP on a walk to the store while it was merely drizzling. Well then it downpoured and the three of them came home soaked and joyful. Meanwhile SB and I made some cookies and had some downtime.

Thursday October 16, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Went to a meeting (a volunteer group here in Charlotte) and found that you need (!) a sponsor to join up. Um - what if you just moved here and don't have a sponsor? Well then I guess need to ask at church or school or something. Seems a little clubby to this new gal in town. Guess maybe I'll just have to try some bars to meet new friends.

Earlier in the day.... I had bought this stupidly expensive liquid bronzer at Sephora on Tuesday. I am using this zinc oxide based sunscreen and don't wish to look like a mime. So I put it on in the kitchen because ... well because I am doing three things at the same time. I turn to grab something and then see IMP running with something in his hand. Yup the expen$ive bronzer. I run for him and then stop - if he has a glass, he will throw the glass if you run after him or if he's holding something in a tube he will, oh yes, squeeze the hell out of the dumb bronzer. So I stop and he still squeezes. I grab it from him but for a moment I can't see the humor in it. I just see red and so I have to pound the floor three times. I look up to see four blue eyes looking at me as if to say "geez, mom, it's only bronzer." Yeah, yeah - but it's MY bronzer. Hands off!

Best Part of the Day - It's so nice to see how much the boys love school - SB gets excited when we pull into the driveway. IMP has no problems and doesn't even whimper when I leave (unlike many of the other kiddos who are still clinging to mom. Weird - as that was HIM this summer. Maybe he now knows I'm coming back or maybe school is pretty dern fun.)

Wednesday October 15, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I realized at the end of the day that SB did not go pee on the potty once today. Must remember to ASK and ASK and ASK. HATE potty training, by the way. Is there some sort of camp you can send them to for this?

Best Part of the Day - SB (FINALLY - hate RED TAPE BS!) has his speech intake or whatever they call it. After watching and interacting with SB, the therapist said "his evaluation was done in May, right?" And I said "yes." And she said "I think I'm going to have to do another informal eval because some of these goals ... he is already exceeding." HOORAY! She said his receptive language and direction following is totally on par with all other three year olds. And she even said that she would not say it is apraxia (which I thought it was) because he is imitating sounds and speech so dern well (not always CLEARLY mind you, but at least trying). Later she said "do you think he's going to qualify for Occupation Therapy services?" This was always a sore spot with me and I NEVER thought he needed OT. And so I said "you know, I don't think he needs it." And she looked at me and said "we'll still test him because we have to - but I do not think he'll qualify." I feakin' KNEW IT!
Also went to see Dr. Hoessini (Kite Runner author) speak tonight and it was very, very interesting and good. He is articulate, witty and very grounded. Best quote - "In Afghanistan if you educate a boy, you educate an individual. If you educate a girl, you educate a community." Here, here!

Tuesday October 14, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - STILL grouchy.

Best Part of the Day - I am grouchy, but I still had a superfun mall day while the kiddos were in preschool. I leisurely walked the mall aimlessly pawing through $85 t-shrits at the hoity toity department store. I can't remember the last time I just walked around the mall (actually I used to hate walking around the mall, now it's like some sort of treat.) Then I went out to lunch and read a book. It was fairly blissful.

Wednesday October 15, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I love my job.  It is so easy and flexible and non-stressful.  I have loved a job before, but it was full of stress--this one is a cinch.

Worst Part of the Day-

I was feeling hopeful about Will-O as we had had a stable string o' days.  Today he and S. had another issue (which bugs me!).  They are sooo similar that they will perhaps always have issues, but I want W. to brush off some of this.  Example:  When S. gets home from school she runs into my arms and we hug and smooch and talk about the day.  She is never super into running into Will-O's arms until after our mom-daughter time.  Will-O gets offended by this and feels it is not respectful, etc. and suspects it has something to do with ME.  I tell him that any parenting book will state that this is normal and will vascillate between parents over time, etc.  He takes it WAY too personally and tries to get S. to rationalize her behavior (eeegads) needless to say it doesn't work.  The final product is often tears (which I am anti-).

Happy Birthday to Alli!!!!

Tuesday October 14, 2008

Best Part of the Day-In the late afternoon Will-O and I had S.'s parent-teacher conferences. It was quite fun to talk with her teachers about our Miss S. It was little surprise that she is excelling in both dance and drama. Each of those teachers are also young (late 20's) and S. LOVES them so. The drama teacher said, "I don't yet know all of the K-4 kids' names, but I know Scarlet." It was cute. Apparently she is a good listener in the class room setting. (Why does that not carry over to soccer practice??)

Worst Part of the Day-
I volunteered to be a chaparone for Scarlet's class field trip to the pumpkin farm. (It was fall time fun, for sure: hay ride to the patch, hunting for the perfect pumkin and picking it out, corn maze, petting zoo, etc.)

On the bus back to school the kids were tired and getting cranky/wild. I over heard some boys in another class (all 3 kindergarten classes went on this trip) saying "the middle finger" and laughing. I, being the responsible grown-up, heard this and got my teacher voice all set and said, "We don't talk like that--it is not impressive." The boys stopped immediately and looked down at the bus floor. The worst part is that this whole exchange intrigued Scarlet immensely. At this point, the only "bad" word she has ever heard of is shut up, and clearly we do not use this word in the home--she just knows it's out there. She kept asking "What's the middle finger? What does that mean? Why is it bad?" I remained mum and stated that we are not going to discuss it on the bus. I just know she will be pumping kids on the playground tomorrow for the skinny on this allusive middle finger business--doh.
Just like one of Will-O's lyrics from a song he wrote 10 years ago: Don't listen to what those filthy public school kids say...

Monday October 13, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Grouchy, grouchy, grouchy describes the day. Me and the kiddos. (The dog and Erik seem fine.) Just too much yelling and disobeying and not enough quiet time (both boyz took half assed naps). Must find playground with fence to contain the monkeys.

Best Part of the Day - A glass of red wine, a book and bed. End it, I say!

Monday October 13, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

I gotta admit today's 'worst part' was the soccer practice.  Very little listening, lotsa ADHD behavior going around and not one Adderall in sight.  (Was there some type of lunar thing happening that only affects 5 year-olds?  It was every single one of the kids tonight.)  I felt like I was channeling a pee-wee coach version of Bobby Knight--"Come on, get yer heads outta yer a**ses!"  Alright, I didn't say anything near that, but I did nearly lose my voice after the constant re-directing, re-instructing and tiring reiteration of every single word.  Let's focus, Little People!!   I may dorkily purchase a megaphone for next week.

Side Note:  The end of practice scrimmage was hilarious once again (and made of the shenanigans more tolerable...)

Best Part of the Day-

I was late running back to work after soccer (supposed to be there at 7pm.)  As I was pulling in to work closer to 7:15, I received a call that I would not be needed at work!  Woo-hoo.  I immediately went to see a flick by myself which is a favorite past-time (of yesteryear at this point.)  Perhaps contrary to much of society's view, I equate movie going with book reading.  I view it as a primarily solitary activity that can clearly be discussed later in a group setting if need be.  I absolutely love going alone.  I declare that as a friend told me tonight, "Aw, poor you going all alone..."  Not poor me, YEAH for me!!   Yeah for free time!  Yeah for picture shows!!

Funniest Comment of the Day-

S. was trying to describe a boy in her class for me.  She said quickly, "He kind of looks like a dark-skinned John Lennon...without the glasses."   Would that be pre- or post-Yoko?

Sunday October 12, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - After a long day of kid-centric fun isn't it logical that said kids would be:
a. so grateful for the fun that they say "thank you"and/or give hugs

b. are so tried for the fun that they sit in silent gratitude

c. are so happy from the fun that they lightly babble to themselves in joyful contentment

OH wait, it's ....

d. are so damn AMPED UP from the fun that they wig out in the car in hysterical tears, moaning and SCREAMING (and this did happen with their cousins as well, so there must be something to it).

Best Part of the Day - The Pumpkin Patch was filled with animals to feed, pumpkins to pick, slides to ride, wooden planks to jump off of and much, much more. A delicious day of 78 degrees (and me in cords .... still can't get over Oct. not being chilly or maybe am just pleased to be fitting in them - regardless I was a tich hot). We went with Uncle Chris and Aunt Ann and their kiddos and it was delightful family fun for the lot of us until we got in the car (see above). Then we did (against better judgement) go out to dinner at this dive pub/restaurant. The video game corner kept Jack, Carson and SB occupied. The DVD playa' did the same once we got IMP calmed down with some grilled cheese.

Um Next Time Let's THINK Before We Act Moment - While leaving the parking lot of the restaurant this car beeps it's horn and a man shakes his finger at us. So I (being the rash, impetuous, beatchy thing I am) shake my finger right back at him. After a lecture from Erik (he is afraid we will soon be shot) - the issue is dropped. Later Erik says "you know, do you think he was honking because we left the doggie bag on the top of the car?" (This is where I placed it to put IMP in his car seat.) Um ... yeah that's probably why.

Sunday October 12, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
Scarlet's 5 year-old b-day party was this morn. Yes, in the morn. It was at Pump It Up--the fun-filled all inflatable party zone. At first I was down about a morning party (10a-noon) and thought the 2 hours simply was not a long enough period to fully experience the party zone. But these peeps know what they are doing--it was clean, safe, super duper fun for all ages (I loved it and slam dunked a basketball for the first time--I did feel like a bad ass superstar!!), and the kids were pooped after only 1 hour of playing and jumping.
The kids were so well-mannered and all of the families and friends are great (like they would be jerks at a party--duh!!) It was a really cool day and even better that I had no pre-clean or post-clean!! Love it.

Worst Part of the Day-
Well, that would be after the mad party as I was carrying in the bushels of pink, plasticky gifts and bags, etc. One of the kids (I hope this was inadvertent) locked the automatic car door and boom--the doors were locked with car keys in the ignition and the extra set in my work bag in the passenger seat. Eeee gads.

Best Parts of the Worst Part-
1.) I removed the scrumptious ice cream cake from the boiling hot car just prior to door locking incident. More for me.
2.) AAA sent out a locksmith within 40 minutes and this man took under 1 minute to unlock the door.
3.) The AAA man I called to dispatch the locksmith was THE MOST PLEASANT AND HELPFUL. I live for appropriate customer service! (He is from Michigan--good peeps--he even wished S. a Happy B-day Party Day.)

Saturday October 11, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
Working out while the chitlins were in kidcare. It is such a wonderful amenity--it really saves me on a Saturday. They LOVE it. I need it.

Worst Part of the Day-
I had to lean into Scarlet as she was in a non-listening mode. I had to ask her over 11 times to do something and by the 12th time I was mad, mad, mad. We did a lil' role playing (which is effective for her). I re-enacted the issue: "Scarlet?" No response. "Scarlet?" No response. "Scarlet?" No response. "Scarlet?!" Nothing. "Scarlet?!!!" You get the sorry picture.
After a time-out we made a deal for her to say "yes Mom" (or dad) immediately after her name is said simply to acknowlege she heard and then she is to be fully prepared for further verbal instruction. Yes, it is basic mix of listening, focusing, dialogue and manners all rolled into one. Hopefully she gets it. We talked about how dad and I expect A LOT from her now that she is 5 (we are really milking this one) and this is a basic expectation.
Lengthy exhale.

Saturday October 11, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Really this was about the worst part of my year. SB has been not wanting to nap lately and two days ago asked for "big bed" which is Erik's and my bed. He napped so well in there that I thought "excellent - another way to get him to nap." So today when he asked for "big bed", I put him in the bed and he snuggled in for his nap. My nephews came over about 15 minutes later as Erik and I were babysitting for the day (although Erik got called into the hospital, so it's just me. But no big deal - the kiddos are 3 and 6 and pretty self sufficient). So I'm downstairs with Jack and Carson building a train track when I hear some thumping from our room. But I just think that he heard the boys come in - so I don't take much notice. Then I hear a HUGE bang and I run up the stairs. There is Erik's six drawer, HEAVY dresser pinning SB to the floor. He has just started to cry and I heave up the dresser, look him quickly over and then (BAD) pick him up. I run him downstairs, sit down with him and try to calm him down. Then I know I have to take a look at him - but there is no blood, no visible bruising .... but I'm freaking out. Two minutes later (after some hysterical crying) he hears his cousins downstairs, dries his tears and runs on down. So I check him over and over. Erik comes home from the hospital and I tell him what happened. He checks him over and says "he seems to be just fine." We checked the scene of the accident and it looks like the bed saved him from ... well from something very bad. The dresser landed on the foot of the bed, so only the drawers pinned SB, not the actual dresser. Thank GOD for a small room! It was really freaky, really scary and made me give the ole SB extra special hugs all day long.

Best Part of the Day - Took the kiddos to the playground and just let 'em run and run and run. Good to see them run.

Friday October 10, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Yoga class was kind of easy and a BS type workout. I have to find something else to do on Fridays. I'm feeling very tired and "yell-y". The yoga did help me find a hour of peace.

Best Part of the Day - Red Wine, Dinner with Erik, You Don't Mess With The Zohan and (breathe out) relax, the babies are in bed.

Friday October 10, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

I had a sitter tonight as I had my Book Club gathering at 6:30pm and then plans to meet friend for a drink around 10-ish.  I've said it before and I will say it again--it took a crazy amount of energy to get ready for the sitter, get the kids fed, bathed, jammied and ready for the sitter, myself cleansed, dressed and ready for the sitter and then the dang appetizer assembled for the gourmet Book Club lasses!!!  By the time I tardily left the home I was fanning myself and ready for a highball of sorts...it is exponentially easier to just leave the chitlins with Dad.

Best Part of the Day-

This sitter drives!!!  I did not have to bribe a buddy to come back to the home and sit and watch Carson Daly while I sped the sitter home at 12:30am.  Whew.  

Thursday October 9, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - A preschool conference (for SB) right in the middle of my four hours o' free time? Booooo. Especially when it was a BS conference full of "is he a good eater?" "How are his sleeping habits?" Um - am I at the pediatrician? Didn't think so. The teacher is a sweet (we moved him on down to the other class where potty training is taught not deadlined). But it just felt like another errand in an errand filled morning (when o when am I going to get a nap and a lunch out? Hopefully soon.) I just didn't quite get it .... I mean if there is a problem, call me in. Otherwise I'll assume he had a fun day of playing, waiting his turn, doing crafts and going outside.

Best Part of the Day - FINALLY got the last of the unpacking done. It was all in the guest room and now the room is spic n' span and ready for visitors. It makes me happy, happy to just take peeks in the room (l-l-l-lameo!).

Aromatherapy? SB was messing with some stuff in my room and to keep him occupied, I gave him some perfumed lotion. I thought that he would just take some out and put it on his hand (as he has done prior). But I turned around to find him dousing the top of his head with the lotion. So now all day as he approached me I had flashbacks of overzealous perfume ladies at department stores. Pure White Linen mixed with little boy dirt is not overly appealing FYI.

Thursday October 9, 2008

Best Part if the Day-

Holy cats the weather today was fall perfection.  Sunny, breezy, leaves blowing, pumpkins abound.  We took our family stroll this afternoon and it was glorious.

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O's presence may have been helpful this week with the kiddies, but we cannot have a frickin full conversation without heat.  Also he is still here tonight as he cannot find his motorcycle key...

Wednesday October 8, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The time from 5:30 p.m. to 6:15 p.m. was just terrible! Our SB was just in a mood all of a sudden (had to do with trying to build a train track and brother IMP tearing it on down). But really - he just couldn't pull himself out of it. It put a terrible ending on an otherwise pretty good day.

Best Part of the Day - IMP is truly adorable (there is something about him ... he is a full body hugger and kisser and a jokester. He just gets that look on his face like "I know I'm not supposed to do this, but it would be so fun so I'm going to ...." and I often have to turn around so he won't see me laugh.) He is just about past his major crying jags ... it's been awhile and I am LOVIN' it. What is funny about him though - if he is in the mood to playfight with SB, then it's all good. But if SB starts it and he doesn't want to ... oh the waterworks. He might be a "take my ball and go home type." We'll just have to work that little quirk on out because nobody likes THAT kid.

Gross Moment - IMP comes up to me from behind and says "Ohhhhh". I turn to look and he has a huge, dead cockroach in his hand. I SCREAM. IMP and SB look at me very calmly but with BIG eyes. IMP drops the cockroach. As I am going to the kitchen to get a paper towel, IMP comes up behind me again holding the cockroach and says "YUCK." And I scream again. At this point he does not drop it but just looks at me. I take it from him with the paper towel, throw it away and then disinfect him. It made me think that in a couple years he's going to be scaring me deliberately with all sorts of creepy crawly things.

Tuesday October 7, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Dinnertime with the boyz has become a battleground and not just in the "just try a bite" sense. More in the "this isn't a constant Animal House food fight" sense. They hit each others trays and plates across the table with great delight, get up and move their chairs across the floor, get up to hit each other with great delight on both parts, get up to ... well just get up over and over. Tonight mama did what she said she was gonna do for weeks now - trays were removed and dinner was finito. It was sad when a hour later (after bath) SB came up and sat at the table and said "eat." And I said "no more tonight buddy." And he then just walked away.

Best Part of the Day - Got sooo much done while the boyz were at preschool including getting my car NC'd out (meaning I completed the final step of automobile legalization which is getting your car inspected.) All done as the boyz would say. Also put some bebe items on Craig's List - time to weed it on out. Oh and the Charlotte gas crisis seems to be over .... no lines. We don't have any premium gas, but that does not affect moi.

Wednesday October 8, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

It has been quite helpful to have Will-O home since Sunday.  (As it should be, I gather, to have 2 adults working together to care for the kids.)  He has obviously turned over some kind of new, mature leaf.  (Thank you.)

Will-O took S. swimiming after school whilst Liam napped and I read/finished my latest Book Club book: Montana 1948.  A short and sweet goodie.   

Worst Part of the Day-

My 5:50am rising time drains me and by 7-ish pm, I am done and want to get in jammies and ready for bed.  How can I resume my social self if I cannot stay up past 8?  Brunches, I suppose. I feel like my morning people friends who years ago lobbied for "morning parties" because they couldn't fathom staying up past 9pm.   But what the heeel?  I was the mascot for night owl my whole life long...I am gettin' old.

Most Straight Shooting Comment of the Day-

Scarl has been reading or at least discerning the names Obama and McCain from yard signs, bumper stickers, etc. for the last couple o' weeks.  Usually as we are driving, she will keep me updated, "There's another one for Obama, Mom", or "No, they like McCain..."  

At 6:58am, as we are walking the 1/2 block to her bus stop, she pointed out a McCain sign in the neighbor's yard.  As we were chatting and waiting for the bus, we saw the occupant of the house open the front door and grab the newspaper on the front porch.  S. immediately bee lined for the unsuspecting neighbor.  "Hey lady, Hey lady!"  (This lady is probably thinking oh, hello sweet girl decked out in head-to-toe pink at 7am.  You must want to talk about rainbows and puppy dogs, right?) "Um excuse me, you shouldn't vote for McCain--he's not the guy.  No, no, no.  Not McCain!!!  If you don't like Obama just because he has a lot of teeth, don't worry because I think he has a lot of teeth, but he's the right one!  We like Obama.  Obama with an 'O'. Bye."

Tuesday October 7, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O, Liam and myself picked S. up from the bus and we walked straight to the park.  We all had a grand time and the kids were lovin' being goofballs while mom and dad looked on.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I received a phone call this afternoon from a woman who stated, "I am calling in an attempt to collect a debt."  Whoa, I thought.  I don't have debts and I pay everything right on time.  I told the woman I was confused.  She told me she was from my Chase credit card and that I had a bill that was due "on the 15th" and I have to pay.  I responded that I was unaware I didn't pay in September and I would look into it and pay right away.  The credit card woman said no it wasn't September's bill, it is October's bill and it is due the 15th of this month.  I got confused and looked in my checkbook and noted I paid Chase and mailed it on Saturday and it should be there by the 15th as due.  She said, "yes, we're just calling to make sure you did send it."  

Weird.  Very bad sign for Chase Bank.  Are they that desperate that they are calling peeps 8 days prior to a bill even being due?  The answer is clearly yes.  

Monday October 6, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Soccer practice with the little bittles.  Scarlet is now listening as good or bad as any of the kids (it is not apparent that she is the coach's kid--she is any ol' 5 year old who sometimes listens and sometimes hugs the girl next to her and tells secrets that have nothing to do with soccer...).

We had our first scrimmage and it made me genuinely smile and chuckle.  These kids were running around like freaks and nailing the ball anywhere they could.  There was only knee jerk reactions (pun intended), no premeditated thought at all.  Scarl was hilariously (to me at least) aggressive (I just spelled that word remembering an 8th grade football cheer...be aggressive!) She would charge anyone and trounce on them just to get to the ball.  It was astounding.  The whole mini-game was serious fun to watch.  I may have never seen so much competition in my life.  These kids wanted to win.  They didn't know where the boundaries were, they weren't quite sure which goal was theirs or really who was on their team, but by golly, they could taste the sweet, sweet win like only crazed lunatics can.

Worst Part of the Day-

Only the rushing around I must do on Mondays.  I must rush from my class at 5pm to soccer at 5:30 back to doctor rounds at 7pm.  There is a bit of rushing and apologizing for lateness, but not a ton of eating....

Truest Comment of the Day-

When getting ready for school this morn Scarlet wanted to wear her new fuzzy gloves (it's not that cold, it is simply part of the outfit) and I was reluctant as they do not have her name labeled as they are new and I haven't had a chance to do so yet AND the school requires all items labeled.  Scarlet's response, "Don't worry, Mom, the teacher will know they are mine because they are pink, fuzzy and have jewels."

True dat, Little Diva.

Monday October 6, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - After spending four days nonstop with the kiddos and Erik's family ... I am done. I need alone time, down time and away time. But instead it is business as usual and I slog it through. How many times can two kids poop in one day? I am OVER it. I can feel how tired and ornery I am. Then as I'm about to head upstairs and read, Erik is ready to look for jobs. And if I don't "help" then I am faced with an angry Erik. So instead we get angry Molly. This can't go on ... we must just move and stay.

Best Part of the Day - I head with the kiddos to pick up the dog from the kennel. The woman brings out Clarence and says "he is our new favorite dog." Then she says that there is this one dog in the Doggie Daycare who always goes up to other dogs and barks right in their face. Well I guess Clarence saw this and went up to this dog and barked in HIS face. They said the other dog hasn't done the barking thing since. Funny - and I was worried the whole time that they were going to call me to make me pick him up. And Clarence must have been run hard - he slept the entire afternoon and evening and didn't bug us at all.

Sunday October 5, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Mostly had to do with Mr. IMP. Halfway through church he throws a fit, so I take him out and end up (literally) chasing him for the next 25 minutes wishing all the while that I was in pants and tennis shoes (not a dress and strappy sandals - ouch.) We head to the beach for a last one hour hurrah and he runs all over (which is fine) but then poops badly and becomes hazmat and then starts a 15 minute crying jag. We leave the beach and realize that we need a way back into the Hilton Head house so while Erik runs to get the keys, I am left carting two unwilling (and one stinky as hell) kiddos to the car ... I could see the car. I knew I'd get there eventually, but it was the LONGEST walk (with me carrying both a majority of the way). We lose IMP's softie and after 20 minutes it is found and he (hilariously) spent the next ten minutes kissing it (about making out with it). And we were on the road by 2 p.m. WHEW.

Best Part of the Day - So good to be home and to sleep in my own (comfy) bed. Got lots of laundry done, cleaned out the car and hit the hay.

Sunday October 5, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Baby shower madness.  O.k., not madness, but a delightful intimate gathering in the name of baby gifts.  Super cute loot for Cutie (babe-to-be's in utero moniker) and fantastic to see everyone.  The baby mama is looking too good!

Also--positive feedback on the upstairs hallway paint color.

Also, also--an excellent report regarding kids' behavior from grandparentals and Uncle Terry (who hung with kids during shower madness.)

Worst Part of the Day-

Out of nowhere at the end of the day I started to get mildly itchy allergy eye and then it rapidly morphed into severely itchy allergy eye.  Swollen, itcy, red and annoying!!  What oh what is my allergen??

Happy Birthday Brother Mike!!!!!  I can't figure out how old you are, but I know it is OLD!

Saturday October 4, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I delivered the chitlins to my parents' so I could prep for the baby shower I am throwing for my sister-in-law on Sunday.  All parties involved simply love this.  The kids LOVE Grandma Barbie's and Grandpa T's.  Scarl will plan arts and crafts, baking, playing, friends over, carving pumpkins--and that is just for the morning.  Liam will contentedly play and play with all of the new and different toys--no shenanigans at their house!  So nice por moi.  (Allegedy the G-parentals are fans of this too.)

Worst Part of the Day-

I slightly blew off friends for cocktails tonight as I know myself and would have many cocktails and ruin my fresh morn and day planned for tomorra.   It's only a 'worst part' as I don't always have a free-of-kids night and a free-of-kids morning, so I hate passing up cocktails with friends!!  Must be responsible...

Saturday October 4, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Alex had to leave today at noon which sucks as he is one of my faves. Also am feeling bloated from all the rich food and heavy drink. Must cut back - only Lite Beer from Miller is my compromise. Very tired - not sleeping well with all the whole family in one room.

Best Part of the Day - Back to the beach and ze IMP is excellent! Just lounged in a chair and watched from a far as he stayed close by. LOVE it. More food, more drink. Me want bed. Erik put SB to bed and had to lay with him for 40 minutes. Gracias.

Friday October 3, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - IMP up early. Me have red wine headache.

Best Part of the Day - Took the kiddos to the beach with GREAT results. Even though the IMP was all over the place and both babies had to be watched at all times, it still was great weather. And the close by the HHI beach Westin makes spicy bloody marys and excellent margaritas (Erik's sister and husband were cocktail pushers - God love 'em.)
Chris and Ann showed up late afternoon (Alex, the other brother, came late on Thursday). We had a long dinner and then just talk and more talk (and more drinks - I'm really wanting to dry out here. Seriously.)

Thursday October 2, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Erik has the day off and we are going to have a wonderful morning lunching and working out while the kiddos are in preschool and then leave for Hilton Head, she said with utter naivete. We dropped the kids at preschool, dropped the dog at the kennel and then had 90 minutes to do laundry, clean the house and pack. I was in HYPER speed. Erik was actually laughing quietly as he vacuumed.

Best Part of the Day - Made it to Hilton Head on time, no traffic and with no major crying jags. Erik's parents have a place there and his sister and husband and their three kiddos had arrived yesterday. There was much red wining - but no whining (that's my favorite pun as I HATE the whining). Whew - nice to just sit, eat, drink and chat the night away. Also did have a political conversation in which I realized that even Conservatives can actually be informed and debate nicely (it appeared they were listening) - but I still was in the minority and did not get a chance to really give my viewpoints succinctly. But maybe everyone felt that way. Probably best to just table it.
Erik had to get IMP to sleep by laying with him for 50 minutes. Gracias.

Wednesday October 1, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Forgot Sista Scar's B-day. Hopefully she doesn't know or I have a feeling I might be off the birthday list. And this makes me feel ... well very, very, very unorganized. Still WAY behind on contacting people - don't personalize, it is EVERYONE. And I'm sick about it. So the only personalization is that I suck.
Also Erik says today "I'm soooo glad we had that conversation that Charlotte is not going to be where we say." Huh - I didn't get that from the convo .. but good to know. But Charlotte is still on the maybe list ... it's just this J-O-B is NOT!

Best Part of the Day - Finished The Counterfeiters. Very Good. Wow. Want to hear more about the "based on a true story" story. Amazing what went down.

Friday October 3, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

As par for my Friday nights, I gleefully went to bed at the kids' ridiculous bedtime of 6:45pm.  I was starting to feel the unpleasant achiness of a cold, so it felt so divine to rest and rest and rest.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I went to pick up take-out lunch for the fam and it took soooo long.  I pulled right up to the closest spot and thought it should only take a moment as I was 5 minutes later than the pick up time.  I left the kids in the car while I ran in literally 15 steps away (and I could see them the entire time through the window...)  The hostess said the bartender was in charge of take-out, the bartender was slammed with hundred of drunks who need a drink at noon on a Friday.  The manager was called over and then after many more minutes of me waiting for him, I had to say "please hold on" as I could see Liam wailing in the car seat.  I could see this pissy manager rolling his eyes as I ran out to the car and checked in with the kids.  Scarlet had "no idea" why little guy was crying.  I then packed them both up and brought in my head-to-toe pink princess and my screaming (still under the weather) child.  I got a whole lot faster service this time.  But still, a pain.  And an eye-rolling, loudly sighing manager bugs.  Boo.

Thursday October 2, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Scarlet read (and paraphrased) to Liam a few books before bedtime.  It was pretty precious to watch the two of them snuggling in bed with books.  When Scarlet wanted to read more than her four initial books, I started to cut off the reading session and S. lobbied, "But Liam and I are finally spending some nice time together.  Please one more book."  Allllllright.

Worst Part of the Day-

Littlest Li of Land and Sea has the same fever/cough issue that S. battled last week.  The poor dear.  His cheeks are the reddest!  You can tell he feels lousy even with the Tylenol/Motrin combo on board.   

Wednesday October 1, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My first-born is 5!!!  She LIVES for birthdays.  You could say "yeah, what kid doesn't?"  Well I never liked mine so I've always been in awe of how much this child loves hers...

Anyhoo, today was Birthday Kick-Off day as it seems to go with kids these days--it is a many day celebration of life and gifts and sweets.  (Big party in 11 days when Will-O is back in town for a day.)

Scarlet was dressed head-to-toe in birthday declaring gear:  shirt, hat, frilly skirt that screams par-tay and a ribbon stating the facts--I am 5.  

I delivered cupcakes to her class for the morning snack and it was the cutest.  Scarlet was beaming with pride as it was her special day, I was her mom and these were her cupcakes to share with her class.  She told me after school that I had made the best choice by getting a mix of vanilla and chocolate cake with a choice of frosting colors AND gender neutral rings imbedded in the frosting.  Whew.    

Worst Part of the Day-

I experienced a mini "grieving day" today.  I kept hearing about this from friends who have gone through a similar marriage situation and today was the day.  It was not a bad sadness, it was perhaps a necessary release of sadness:  why is it like this, why are you/we not normal, how did this happen?  I had tears streaming down my face for a good 60 minutes.  Don't worry--it was well after the cupcake delivery and way before picking up the kids.  

Tuesday September 30, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - When Erik went to get gas yesterday, he took my BELOVED navigation system (have I written how I have no sense of direction and my Garmin is like a little Guardian Angel?) He did not put it back in my car and it made me angry and sad (sounds like Therapistspeak - but this is how I felt). This little incident spun my day in a brand new direction ... the morning then seemed to just dissolve. I broke the dog's food dish, almost forgot to make lunches for preschool, forgot a grocery list and then whacked my head (hard) on an open cabinet. By the time Erik got the message and called me - I think he was a little scared. I don't know that I've ever left him such a message (I think I sounded like I was off my meds. And I'm not on meds so that is kind of scary.) But SUCKA don't take my Garmin.

Best Part of the Day - After that morning, I only waited about 30 minutes for NC license plates (and did find the place without said Garmin, so there you have it). Then went grocery shopping and found - HALLELUJAH - a gas station with gas and no lines!! A minor miracle in our Charlotte world, so I filled 'er up. Then I got some lunch, came home, relaxed and went to pick up the boyz. Then after naps we went over to my high school friend's house (she also lives in Charlotte, so cool!) and had a fun afternoon of playing in their newly renovated home. Then started watching The Counterfeiters with Erik - it is really amazing. Can't wait for the ending!