Saturday November 29, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I have been smiling all day.  This solitude is healing.  I can do what I please, when I please. How novel!!!!!!  I slept in, lounged, watched a movie, took a nap, went for a run, more lounging, calmly readied myself for a b-day party this eve.  Ahhhhhh.  

I now remember why normal, child-less people love weekends.  It is amazing.  The under-eye circles are diminishing, my heart rate is slow and steady...I feel like a million bucks.

Worst Part of the Day-

Why oh why do I think I am 21?  A friend's B-day party lead us to a post-party tattoo parlor, then a hole in the wall bar where I became BFF's with a 44 year-old rotund woman with marital (and alcohol) issues and a 60 year-old doctor from Sierra Leone.  The topic of the night was stickin it to the man.  We all did shots on the house (seriously?!) and kept swilling cocktails.  WTF?  I have now modernized my family trait of drinking and dialing to trashed and texting.

Calm down, Little Miss Free For the Weekend...calm right down.

Friday November 28, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O and kiddies are gone until Sunday.  I took advantage of the solitude by gettin' some stuff done:  I spent the day deep cleaning the house, cleaning out bags and purses and drawers that have needed it since summer--and also put up the Christmas tree and outside decorations.   Whew.  It is amazing what one can accomplish without little hands undoing it instantly.  The kids will be super psyched to see the Christmas lights, etc.  

The house is spotless.  The calm is here.

Worst Part of the Day-

I need a good book.

Saturday November 29, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Had a fun filled morning out. Erik and I took the kiddos to the gym childcare at 10:30 a.m. and worked out. Then off to (GASP!) get Quinn's haircut. It is so so SO much better and totally adorable and still very curly (but non frizzy and in control). He looks super, super cute. Then home for lunch and naps. Then off to the mall to meet Ann, Chris and their boyz as they were going to get photos with Santa (not our little ones, they are anti-Santa this year.)

Worst Part of the Day - Santa was taking a break when we arrived at the mall (about 5 p.m.) So we had to entertain our two at the mall - Quinn was pretty good, but Wes? Ugh - no wonder we never go to the mall together. Wes and I ended up riding the escalators up and down for about 25 minutes. Then it's 7 p.m. and we head to dinner. Wes is about having a fit. And in the car Erik and I both agree that we can't really wait for a table. We get in and there is a 10 minute wait. And so Erik says "we can't wait for that." And I'm now thinking "hell - we're here and I have the DVD playa' and it will take longer to get home and then feed them ..." So then Erik says "well Molly you can decide." So I decide to stay. Then Erik is saying "WELL I thought YOU had said you didn't want to stay and so I am just surprised that you would say that." I say "no WE said we didn't want to wait - but then I changed my mind." The dinner went .... really well. Quinn was about perfect. No DVD player for him - he just colored, talked with Erik and Uncle Chris and then ate an entire kid's pizza. Wes - once I got the DVD player on, he sat still and watched and ate half a grilled cheese and a piece of pizza. Now even before the kiddos behaved, I have to say that Erik was very pleasant at the table. So that was nice. Hoever, on the way out, I just couldn't resist one immature dig so I said "who thinks MOLLY made the right decision to stay?" I mean, if you give me the decision making power instead of making a joint decision - get ready for me to make a decision you just might not like.

Friday November 28, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Made it to a Group Power class and Ann met me there. How nice to have someone to talk to in between tracks. Erik's mom was going to meet us too, but they ended up taking off early to Hilton Head. Then Erik met his brother for the evening Bobcats game (which turned out to be in Indiana - whoops!) and so I made soup and watched some Buffy (seasons six begins!) and went to bed early.

Worst Part of the Day - Wanted so badly to get the boyz out - but they still are just recovering from these colds! Quinn woke up with one eye totally sealed shut with goop - "can't see! Can't see!" he cried. So it was just a long afternoon of two crasins inside.

Thursday November 27, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Lovely meal that I did not have to host :-) Thank you Tante Ann. All the food was AMAZING and it was a sunny, warm day (but not too hot - perfection!) Erik's parents were there and it was family fun. I popped a Cold Duck at 12:30 and had some sweet, bubbly swigs in a toast to all the Gasts, Cahills and Lovetts.

Worst Part of the Day - What do you get when you take two boyz used to naps and forgo those naps? The boyz were mostly pains in the arse for the day - just overtired and whiny and not placated by ANYTHING (even a sanctioned Noggin marathon which normally would have made Quinn into a preschool zombie, did NOT work.) Afterward, Erik and I decided that we needed the boyz to be one year older and have a basement. Man was it rough!! And I wasn't feeling all that well by the end - sore throat rearing up again (only two small glasses of CD drunk - lame).

Wednesday November 26, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Dreary day with two somewhat sickly boyz. No one is feeling all that great - my sore throat persists (worst in the morning). Did make it to the gym - so at least I got that in before the feast fest manana.

Best Part of the Day - Erik was home by noon - so I was able to run out and get some last minute Thanksgiving Day sundries (Cold Duck - how could I have forgotten??) Then that night I had soup and went to bed early.

Thursday November 27, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Playing Poorman Scattegories with the fam after the Thanksgiving feast.  It's always good clean fun to watch my mom try to guess "camel toe" from the clues. 

The day was pretty fun and relaxed and the 100% from-scratch food was fantastic!!   The Cold Duck was a serious hit--as always. 

Worst Part of the Day-

I felt all cracked out as a result of the TheraFlu in the morning.  I could still feel the effects it 16 hours later--shaky and a little cloudy--what a lightweight!!!!  I was trying to pack for the kids to go to my parents' for Thanksgiving and then for a full weekend with Will-O to visit his father. It was a lot to pack up: the snow suits, the nice clothes, the swim stuff for the hotel, the snacks, the typical madness.  I will admit that the packing for the kids for a many day stay does often throw me off (it's my weak spot), but this time the TheraFlu effects were making my least favorite task even more challenging.  I kept sensing I was dropping bags when I was not...hello, freakshow...lay off the cracky decongestants.

Happy Thanksgiving to all!!!

Wednesday November 26, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

I had been to work only 2-ish hours when I received a call from Scarlet's school.  The secretary stated the facts as she knew them, "Scarlet has been throwing up and needs to be picked up immediately."  Whoa.  I wrapped up my work and left within minutes.  I thought of maybe stopping at the store to grab some Gatorade and thought, no, I should just rush and get the poor girl.  When I got to the school Scarlet was calmly playing.  She didn't look ill.  When I asked her how she felt, she said fine.  I asked her what happened and she relayed she took a bite of a corn muffin (she hates corn muffins) at lunch and gagged and spit up.  Huh.  Does this episode really deem calling the parent to rush over?  Weird.

Also, I have started to feel achy and yucky this evening.  

Also, my 7pm bedtime kids would not settle down until 9!!  What the?

Best Part of the Day-

I atypically took some TheraFlu and hit the sack.  

Tuesday November 25, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - My mom had an early flight so we were up at 4:45 a.m. to get her to the airport. Then I came home and laid down for 45 minutes before the boyz got up. Looking at Wes I could not decide whether or not to send him to preschool today. After a dose of Motrin and a thorough face washing - the kiddo stole a pen and wrote all over his feet and legs. Doesn't seem like a sicky to me especially as he's splashing through puddles as I'm trying to get him in the car. I drop the two off and head out to do the delinquent grocery shopping. Less than on hour later the preschool is acallin' - can I pick up my feverish Wes? I enter the office and there is Wes laying down on a bench covered by his jacket. He's not super hot - the fever must be very slight. But I have to admit that I've never seen him just laying anywhere at anytime unless it's nap time or bedtime (the preschool must just LOVE me). I get him home and he sleeps until 12:45 when we have to pick up Quinn. Then I get him home and he sleeps until 3 p.m. Then he's REAL unhappy the rest of the afternoon.
I'm not feeling too well myself - and Erik worked a 13 hour day and we're all a little ... tired.

Best Part of the Day - I went to the library to return a book and then pick up some new books that I had reserved. I read this book front to back today/tonight - The Fifth Child by Doris Lessing (don't be too impressed, it's only 133 pages). Whoa - I don't know what to say about it. It would be a good book club book because it brings up all sorts of issues (class, family size, who 'deserves' to live, is the good of one worth the destruction of many, how much of a child's actions can be 'blamed' on the parent ....) I found it very, very interesting. Also I did have a really excellent latte at Caribou Coffee. I had never had their coffee before and it rocked.

Monday November 24, 2008

Best Part of the Day - After the gluttonous weekend it felt great to workout (although I still feel a little off - slightly nauseous and a sore throat.) I left Wes home with Gigi and took Quinn to the gym with me.
Then that evening my mom and I went to Dean and Deluca for dinner and then watched Tropic Thunder which did crack me up (but I thought I would laugh out loud more). Too bad she leaves tomorrow - what a HUGE help it's been having her here.
Also my latte/cappuccino machine is broken!!!! I am sooo sad - it was my treat to get me going every morning. Now dealing with Williams Sonoma to get 'er fixed.

Worst Part of the Day - The boyz are still not 100% feeling well and they are being pistols (esp Wes). I had a plan to do grocery shopping during their nap while my mom was still here - but I ended up taking a nap instead. I am fighting something off and I am beat!

Sunday November 23, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Slept in. Breakfasted. Cleaned up, said our goodbyes and set out for home. Very fun and leisurely morning with just myself to worry about and pack up. Easy drive back home.

Worst Part of the Day - I felt nauseous on the way home - maybe it was the Subway attached to a gas station that we got for lunch? UGH.
The poor ole boyz both have colds galore. Quinn is actually starting to look a lot better, but now the little one is in the middle of it (nonproductive cough, weeping eyes and stuffed up nose). And poor ole Gigi who had to take care of little ones who were ornery and sicky. Yuck.

Tuesday November 25, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Sitting in the freshly tidied home (thank you, self) after the kidz were snoozing.  Will-O left today after a 1 week stay and though it was civil and fine, it is calming and necessary to get the home back in order.

Worst Part of the Day-

The morning.  After my long day of workin it yesterday, I didn't do my typical house pick-up and organize session for the morning.  That was a mistake.  Scarlet's back pack was MIA and her snow pants, coat and mittens were balled up and wet from the day before.  While she has other mittens and coats, she doesn't like to wear them to school (why?).  It was a cluster o' tears.   Arrrgggghhh.

Note:  Scarlet came home from school with new Hannah Montana gloves.  When I asked her where she got the gloves, she stated cheerfully they were a present from the substitute teacher today.  She said, "I got them because I was helping the teacher."  Hmmm.  Usually teachers don't give out anything more than stars.  I began to pump her for more info.  I asked what the substitute brought if a boy was the helper.  She started to look sheepish.  I pressed her for more details and then said I would like to call the teacher to thank him for the gloves.  Then she broke.  No, no, no.  "I didn't get them from the teacher...I took them from my friend."  "You stole the gloves, Scarlet?"  "No, I just took them."  We discussed this and agreed she would return them tomorrow.  We also discussed lies and fibs, etc.  I feel good that I know kids who tell fibs are bright and creative and imaginative (not evil, like my parents thought), but we have got to nip this in the bigtime bud.

Monday November 24, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Scarlet is such a sweet in the mornings.  She goes from snoring to awake in a snap and is gleeful (that is so not me.)  This morn there was a healthy dusting of snow on the ground and Scarlet was absolutely jazzed up to get her entire snow get-up on and run out and play even prior to her 7am bus.  To be that enthused about snow and mornings and life...amazing.

Worst Part of the Day-

Peeps, just a long day.   An almost 12 hour day at the work place.  

Sunday November 23, 2008

Simultaneous Best and Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O and I had a crazily needed heart to heart.  We went through a therapist-like exercise where I wrote down a list of "violations" he has committed against me.  He then read them to me and we discussed them one by one.  It was healing for both us to hear him speak from his heart and apologize.  I may keep the paper for a really bad modern art piece.

Saturday November 22, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My 3.5 weeks alone with the kids have earned me 3 "free" consecutive weekends and today commenced the fun.   I drove to Chicago this morning and had an incident-free drive (deliciously rare.)  I had a lovely lunch/brunch with very soon-to-be-mama Sista M.  A pedicure with Sista A. And then din din, wine and movies with Brotha S. and Sista A.   A wonderfully relaxing day/night. Just my style.

Worst Part of the Day-

I did not get to meet up with one of my Chi buds as she had to take her daughter to the ER for non-stop puking all the live long day.  Poor dears.

Friday November 21, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I went to the Aveda spa I live for--courtesy of sister-in-law's gift to me for throwing a babe shower--hello, unnecessary (but awesomely awesome!)

The experience was divine.  The comfy robes, the relaxation room, the yummy Aveda tea, the ever pleasant staff...the deep tissue massage was amazing!!  I forgot how much I loooove the spa world.  

Worst Part of the Day-

When Scarlet woke up this morn, within minutes she complained, "I have a headache and a sore throat."  The complaint seemed legit (she is not an AM complainer) so I gave some Motrin and had her continue to get dressed for school.  She proceeded to state her case of lousiness 5 times in 30 minutes, so I made the time-sensitive call to cancel her bus and then called the school to report her absent.  About an hour later she was singing, dancing and talking per her usual and I wondered, is this the effect of the Motrin, or have I been snowed by a mini-con artist?

Saturday November 22, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - A little tired and a little hung over - but nothing too bad. Back at the homefront, Quinn is starting to feel better and Wes is now in the middle of a cold. Ugh.

Best Part of the Day - Shopping at the outlet mall with Erin and Ann. Then lunch. Then a nap. Then cocktails. Then out to dinner (we had a babysitter for Chris and Ann's kiddos). (I had pesto grilled Kingfish on seafood risotto with grilled spinach - delish! and a dirty martini.) Then back home for more cocktails and game playing. Relaxing and fun.

Friday November 21, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Crazy morning of running around and getting ready to leave for Hilton Head. Forgot to take the dog for a walk (my mom is taking care of the boyz this weekend and I wanted to give Clarence one good walk - but totally forgot!) And Quinn is still not feeling great and now Wes appears to be coming down with the same cold. Ugh - poor Gigi.

Best Part of the Day - Enjoyable, relaxing four hour drive to Hilton Head (no screaming, crying, whining from Erik or I). Arrived right with Alex and his gal pal Erin who we were meeting for the first time. Had some cocktails, went out for Mexican food (yum) and headed home to find that Chris, Ann and the kiddos had just arrived. Perfect timing. More cocktails and game playing ensues. Bed (for me) around 1 a.m. The Reitter Boys stayed up until 2 a.m. playing poker

Thursday November 20, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Quinn is not feeling 100% - but his spirits were high. So I Motrined and Musinexed him and sent him to preschool. He made it through the time - but then was not very happy to be heading home.
And baby? It's cold outside! I can't even THINK how chilly it must be up North if it's this dern cold here!

Best Part of the Day - Ginny and I had a fun shopping/lunching day - Target, Costco, Mall, Talbots (for her, not me :-) and then lunch. A relaxing fun time.

Thursday November 20, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
I volunteered at Scarlet's school today. A group of parents were to serve the kids a "tradtional" Thanksgiving meal (no stuffing and no cranberries does not equal traditional!) to the entire school. It was really fun (though I was bustin ass with my rusty waitressing skills...) and the kids were by and large very sweet and excellently mannered. Several kids in various grades would ask, "Who's mom are you?" I would tell them and shockingly the response would be, "Little Scarlet? I know her!" It was unexpected. I don't know how they would know her. Of course S's classmates do know me and it was fun to see them. "Scarlet's Mommy-I need more mashed potatoes!"
After the feast, I sat with Scarlet and class and watched the first grade's performance called Munchin' and Movin'. It was less of a play and more of a medley of songs, dances and skits--it was seriously cute.
The original plan was for Scarlet to come home with me at 1:45pm instead of getting on the bus and coming home at 2:15pm. Instead she insisted on taking the bus. It turns out that one of the stars of the show (he stole the show with his tap dancing!) is a boy named, Mitchell. Apparently Mitchell rides the bus with Scarl and apparently she was star struck and wanted to have a chance to congratulate him on his performance. She said, "I'll tell him to break a leg." Well, a little late, but alrighty. (I can condone her being a theater groupie...just not a rock band groupie.)

Worst Part of the Day-
I hit a wall at 5pm. I had to again cancel my evening plans--too sleepy. I went to bed at 6:30pm with the kids. Lame, but necessary.

Wednesday November 19, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
A gang night of dinner and drinks was overdue and tonight was the night. Too bad Cuz S. was not feeling up to par--and my prescription of Dr. McGillicudy's did not seem to cure what ailed her. I, myself, was feeling spry and wanted to have just one more... (It was super duper easy to have Will-O at home with the kids as a sitter would've been completely out of the question.)

Worst Part of the Day-
Out a little later than I should have been with my just one more philosophy...I know the children will get up at their usual 6AM--eek.

Wednesday November 19, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Had a terrible night sleep due to Quinn calling out and the dog then deciding he needed to go out. Tired. And oh no. Quinn is a sickie. He has a non-productive cough, stuffed up nose and seems to be out of sorts. After a trip to Trader Joe's and his speech appointment, I put him down for a nap and he just ....would .... not .... sleep. So by the late afternoon we had a sick, whiny, tired as hell kiddos who was no fun for anyone. Whew - bedtime could not have come quickly enough!

Best Part of the Day - Had a workout that did not involve lugging the kiddos (thank you Gigi). Then had a fun evening of bad television with my mom and Erik. Gigi gamely watched Erik and my guilty pleasure (The Pick Up Artist 2). Then to bed early as I was pretty beat all day.

Tuesday November 18, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I think we are getting some sickness in da house. Wes is stuffy, Quinn seems to be starting to come down with something. Uh oh.

Best Part of the Day - Erik came home from work and I scooted out to pick up my mom from the airport. She arrived right on time and (surprise) I was actually in the cell phone lot waiting for her. I tend to sometimes be a tich late to pick people up. We got back to the house to find the kiddos fed, bathed and ready for bed. Quinn and Gigi played the computer a bit and then off to snoozeland.

Tuesday November 18, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

A successful workout was had!  I left while Will-O was readying the kids for bed and enjoyed a leisurely exercise, stretch and cool down session.  Nice.

Worst Part of the Day-

As Will-O is home for this 7 day stretch I had planned to take advantage of his evening presence and go out on the town each night this week.  The problem with this good-in-theory-plan is that this ol' mama is used to going out 2x/month at best.  I was too sleepy to make my cocktail engagement tonight...I needed my flannel jams and some couch time.  Now that is hot and hip.

Monday November 17, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Erik had the day off and so we had made plans to meet with a Realtor and do some exploring out by Mountain Lake. Now doesn't this sound organized? We got a hold of the Realtor on Sunday morning ... but one thing about this crap market, if you are buying a home, you are like royalty. So Erik got the kids fed and then I got them dressed and then we headed out to explore. We ended up at the mall which had Cinnabon (for the kiddos - I swear I only had one teeny bite) and an absolutely gorgeous Polar Express set up. The boyz must have been especially naughty as they would not go anywhere near Santa (WHAT is Santa doing out so dern early anyways??? Boooo.) Then we went through some homes, had some lunch and took the boyz home for naps. I even worked out in the evening ... something that is hard for me (but not as hard when someone else is home feeding, bathing and pj-ing the babes).
- Oh did I forget to say we might now stay in Charlotte? It's all still up in the air - but looking more positive toward staying.

Worst Part of the Day - The afternoon was a tich whiny. And poor ole Quinn is not feeling well - a cough that is so surprising and upsetting to him. And Wes is just in a mood - probably feeling a bit out of sorts from Cinnabon, lunch out and a late nap. Or maybe just being a pistol. Either way - makes for a long afternoon.

Exciting News - My mom got a last minute ticket two days ago and is coming for a visit. Hooray. And she has generously offered to watch the kiddos while Erik and I go to Hilton Head with Erik's two brothers. Should be some delish kid-free fun!

Monday November 17, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O is home for a week.  We agreed upon the non-traditional practice of pretending we are friendly acquaintances (as opposed to oppositional spouses) so we can get along swimmingly. Per my chore request, today he raked leaves in the morn, mowed the lawn in the afternoon and then played with the kids during the temporary blizzard this early evening.  All of that helped take a nice load off of moi.

Worst Part of the Day-

It was slick rick out on the roads this evening.  Out of nowhere I fish tailed twice and the next instant an ambulance coming toward me in oncoming traffic did a solid 360 and narrowly missed me.  I really knew it was time to turn around and go home when I saw 5 cars in one block look like this: 2 in a ditch, 2 had hit different trees and 1 had nailed a street lamp.  Yikes.  

Sunday November 16, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Kiddos inside for the duration of the day .... see Erik got Panther's tickets from work and so I said "take your brother!" Well his wife (Ann) was already going with their elder son, so I said "I'll take Carson" (the younger one). The kids played fine together - but since Carson does not nap, Quinn did not nap and Wes only took a hour nap. So no time out for Mama. The kiddos were all fine (just age appropriate whining, crying or mild fighting - they really all did super, super well. It was just a long day to be indoors - I knew there was NO WAY I could take all three somewhere and did not have a car seat for Carson anyways. I had forgotten how long NFL games are! And Erik had many o' cocktail. Jealous!!)

Best Part of the Day - Chris and Ann gave us their tickets to Chicago (the musical, not the city). So after the Panthers game, they took Quinn and Wes to their house. So Erik and I got to get dressed up, have a kid-free dinner and then go see the show. Fun, fun, fun! Very relaxing and enjoyable even with a semi-buzzed husband (I did see him do some sleepy head jerks during the performance and he did get the hiccups - but I just ignored and watched the show. Classy.)

Sunday November 16, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
I went to brunch at a lovely, lovely place for Cuz K's belated b-day. (I have a great new brunch place for any and all out of town guests!) It sooo hit the spot: the scenic restaurant, the divine bloody mary's, the perfect brunch fare and the grand company! I was jonse-in' for brunch all week...

Worst Part of the Day-
As I as readying for beddie-bye, I started feeling low-grade waves of nausea. I felt fine (wonderful!) all day so I just laid down on my side and tried to remain still. About a half hour after I laid down, I jumped up 'cause I knew I was feeling the bad, bad sensation rising....ick...I puked in the bathroom garbage can 1 second later....yicky yickiness.

Saturday November 15, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
Super fix-it man, C. Pete, came over this morn and fixed the ill toilet. Not only did he repair it in under 6 minutes, he also made it more environmentally sound by lowering something so the water level in the tank did not have to be as high, therefore saving tons o' water with each flush. Hurrah! Thank you, C. Pete, for the fixing!! Thank you, K. Pete, for demanding he fix it!!
(I owe ya, big time!!)

Worst Part of the Day-
Scarlet was up at her usual 6:15am. She was singing and talking soooo loudly at that hour. She continued singing and talking loudly (as usual) allllll day long. At 6:15pm, I packed the kids up to go get the sitter for my bachelorette outing and Scarl was still singing and talking. Her vocal cords had not taken a rest for 12 hours. That was a bit taxing today. Let's play the quiet game, shall we?

Saturday November 15, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Oh the boyz during their breakfast. A waffle and a half were wasted and when Erik tried to lecture me, I told him that while I hear what he is saying, it is a hard balance to figure out what they are going to eat when. Nine times out of ten, Quinn will eat three waffles and today he ate only one and a bite. When Erik tried to tell me that I ALWAYS waste food, I didn't get mad and storm out. I simply said "that can't POSSIBLY be true. They do eat some of it." And he had to agree.

Best Part of the Day - We met Uncle Chris and Tante Ann with Jack and Carson at the playground. The boyz all ran around while we stood and chatted (well whoever wasn't chasing/keeping Wes from concussions got to stand and chat). Then we headed over to their place where our boyz were as good as gold. (OKAY so Wes did dump some dirt out of a plant - but that is it. That's about ten gold stars for that kiddo.) All played nicely together and we got to have an adult Asian meal together with plenty of chit chat time. Got home at 9:15 p.m. (!) and the babies went right to snoozeland. I was soon to follow - whew!

Funniest Moment - we were saying goodbye to Uncle Chris and Tante Ann. As always with an adorable almost two year old we say "Wes give Uncle Chris a kiss and say goodnight." Wes is in Erik's arms and he turns and says "night night!" and then puckers up and leans in to kiss Chris. At the last moment, still puckered up, Wes reaches up and smacks Chris' face. Of course we all die laughing which is exactly the wrong response. Can't wait until he does it to his preschool teacher.

Friday November 14, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - While opting for a noon workout class on Fridays, it makes for a long morning (esp when it's rainy as it was today). I just have to figure out something else to do on these mornings - the park will be in order on the nicer days for sure. I just need little one to get a tich older and then I think we will be able to do sooo many more things! However, Quinn did only make it through about one hour of Madagascar 2 with Erik (and much of the last 30 minutes were placated with popcorn, juice and lap sitting). So I probably just need to manage my expectations (as they say in Corporate America) and deal with it.

Best Part of the Day - Watched 'What Happens in Vegas' with Erik and it was much less horrible than I thought it was going to be. In fact, I did laugh out loud three times. That's three more times than I would have thought.

Friday November 14, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

I had an impromptu wine party as I was unable to get a sitter for my book club tonight.  Around 1:30am (I know, I know), I heard to sound of water churning in the upstairs bathroom.  I went up to check on it (it sounded like the toilet filling, but constantly.)  I idiotically lifted the heavy porcelain top of the toilet and all of a sudden water starting spilling over the top.  Soon I was screaming "help!"  Water was spraying everywhere.  A plumber is needed!!!

Best Part of the Day-

Thank heavens the wine party was going strong at 1:30am  (we would not stop talking or drinking).  As soon as I gave my troubled cry, 2 trusty helpers were at my service.  One was shouting, "get your toolbox!" and was instantly soaking wet as she tired to manipulate thingys inside the tank.  Another was down to business tossing all of the towels from the closet on the floor.  The floor was completely submerged in seconds.  (Astonishingly) immediately one was on the phone with her husband who was giving awesome advice (what a dear--at 1:30am) in the heat of the moment and the other had a wrench in hand and was turning the water source to the toilet off--a bicep work out.  It was crazy.  Three minutes prior we were laughing and wining and relaxing.  The drunken house guests successfully turned the spraying water off as I stood there not knowing what to do!   If I was alone it would have been a NIGHTMARE!!!  Long live drunken house guests!!!

Thursday November 13, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I had been avoiding talking about Will-O and my sitchy to many of my out of town friends.  It is just so awkward and exhausting to discuss via phone.  I have literally been avoiding making calls and calling people back.  It really would be ideal to discuss this content over cocktails in a low-lit bar.  Instead, I sent off an email stating the facts this morning (yes, months later...)  Still it felt good to press 'send' and let it out.  I am feeling a little lighter, better.  I continue to get solid feedback.  Those who are married seem to be able to relate in some capacity.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I went to the Time Warner cable office to talk with a customer service rep about possibly keeping the internet portion, but ridding the cable part.  (I was unable to get through to anyone via phone--annoying.)  As I was waiting in line I was hit by this feeling that cable t.v. is corrupting the nation (the office was dank, kinda scuzzy and the yicky ambiance did not help) and adding to every slovenly issue from obesity to ADD to instant gratification-itis.   (Plus, I have not once watched a cable t.v. show in my own home and I can't stand paying $120/month for almost nothing.)   I was explaining my deal to the staff woman, she said "well we can get your bill down to $80 per month".  What would be different, I wondered.  "Nothing."  So really just because I came down here and asked ya take $40 off?  Yes.  Instead of this making me pleased for the future months, it pissed me off about the past months.   I am doing away with the cable, fo sho.

Thursday November 13, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The ole SB. He had a MAJOR fit this late afternoon/evening. Throwing a huge tantrum (this is very out of line for him - I wondered if at first he might not be well? But I think he was feeling just fine.) He screamed and was defiant and demanded his way. Would not touch his dinner and then tried to demand cookies (um, I don't think so.) Finally Erik had had enough - he was taken from the tub (where he was screaming for more water) and was placed in his bedroom for one hour. He (during this time) threw everything around the room. Finally calmed down. We let him out. He apologized, had some downtime and we put him to bed. WOW - I felt so bad for him. But I also think that kind of behavior must be nipped in the bud. What an unsweet he was - so weird to see him act so crazy.

Best Part of the Day - Peace reigns in the land o' Reitter. Erik and I talked over (again) yesterday and both agreed it was out of line and petty. But maybe necessary? I know that my outlook on the kiddos and our marriage shifted (positively) after it all. But I hate to have these things happen in order to improve things. However, as the saying goes - we learn more from our mistakes than our successes. Man - I should be wise, wise, wise by now.

Wednesday November 12, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I received a note from a college acquaintance (gotta love facebook) who checked out a link to this very blog and then proceeded to read it in its entirety--subsequently knowing my present day life better than my own father.  Her sentiments were extraordinarily kind and reminded me how we all have beauty and obstacles in our lives (i.e. best parts and worst parts.)  Her kindness inspired me to write to another friend who I think possesses an amazing outlook in the the face of adversity...passing it on.

Worst Part of the Day-

I am super duper ready for bed at 7:30pm, but try to force myself to stay up as I feel like I should.  For what?  T.V.?  I only watch PBS...For the coveted glass of wine as the home is tidy and quiet after the chitlins are snoozing?  Probably.  The thing is tonight I basically force-fed myself the wine and then realized, dudes--I am exhausted.  It was weird and unnecessary.  And pretty lame that this must be written about...blah. 

Wednesday November 12, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The long and short of it is that Erik thinks I'm often extraordinarily unpleasant to come home to. And I think he does not choose his words and arguments toward me with a kindness in mind. (He truly hurt my feelings today. But I guess I hurt his as well). What can we do? We've both made a pact to be nicer and more pleasant and try, try again.

Best Part of the Day - A very busy and productive morning - work out, Trader Joe's, Speech Appointment, home, lunch, naps. And they took excellent naps!

Tuesday November 11, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I swirl in to pick up the boyz from preschool. IMP is asleep on the floor - so I swoop him up and am heading out the door when the teacher informs me that he's had diarrhea one too many times and I'll need a note from the Pediatrician to ensure it's just a lactose intolerance. Um - by Thursday I need this? Boooo. So we head into the office that afternoon (with a still waking up SB who was unhappy to be jarred out of his leisurely waking routine). Doctors sees IMP and says "he's perfectly healthy." The sweet had even GAINED two pounds in the last six weeks. But I do think the soy milk is helping - less diarrhea and WAY less diaper rash. Hooray. So I get my note. HA HA!!

Best Part of the Day - I still feel terrible from my menstrual issues. So this morning I headed to Panera for a latte and bagel - I sat, sipped, ate and read for 20 minutes. And it felt soooo good. So peaceful. Lovely.

Tuesday November 11, 2008

Post-cut Smooth Operator vs. Pre-cut Androgynous Toddler

Best Part of the Day-

Liam's daytime sitter is also a licensed hair stylist.  This morning I made an off-handed comment to her about how I keep trying to cut Liam's cascading locks each morning while he eats breakfast (lollipops and various other items are getting stuck in his wild hair and all of my meager cutting attempts have made it look choppy and crazy.)   The sitter said she would love to cut it and I thought, "Yeah, good luck...this child will NOT sit still for one second."  But I said, "Sure, that would be great."  I completely forgot about this little exchange until I came in to collect Liam.

When I walked in to get him, long gone was the wavy, baby mane--out came a clean-cut, confident frat boy strolling up to greet me.  He kept patting his own shorn head and smiling. He knew he was looking smooth.  

Worst Part of the Day-

Alright, my attempt at an internet company switch to save bucks is not gonna happen.  I tried to say, Screw you, Time Warner!  Instead I have to say, Take me back, Time Warner!  Darn it.  

Most Rebellious Part of the Day-

I found myself watching The Biggest Loser for the first time this evening.  As I watched the contestants work their jiggly butts off, I slammed a beer (albeit a light beer) and shoved about 10 mini candy bars (not light) into my mouth.  Who does that?  I am not sure if it was rude, funny, just plain unmotivated gluttonous behavior, or totally random.

Monday November 10, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Well how much worse can it get when you are extraordinarily menstrual? Lots of impatient yelling and waiting for the time to tick by so I could swill red wine to dull the pain.

Best Part of the Day - We began SB's speech today - whew! Finally. It's been a long, red tape road to get to this point. The speech path works at the local elementary school (which is adorable! All full of light and class projects on the walls and kids learning. This is my first impression, of course, but it SEEMED this way. Like an excellent place of learning.) IMP and I had to take a walk, but SB (chill as ever) just worked away with Miss Emily. He even asked to do more flash cards at the end. He'll now go two days a week for 30 minutes each time - which is kind of a drag for me, but I think is best for him. Miss Emily is going to work on teaching him more sign language to help bridge his communication and help him be less frustrated. And she will then help him on individual sounds. All good.

Monday November 10, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My mom came over to watch the kids while I went to work this evening.  I feel so confident when they are in her care.  It's great for all involved.

Worst Part of the Day-

Liam's sitter called to inform me that she threw her back out this weekend and would not be able to sit today.  Aw man.  It is only a 4 hour block, but I was a hair bummed.  Therefore I had to take L. to the library (to prep for my class tonight) and grocery store (we have NO food) I am soooo anti taking my children out into the private sector...I know it is me... Even as I placated L. with lollipops the entire time (yes, I admit it.  yes, there is sugar in them) he was still difficult.  He may not be feeling 100%, but still.  Amidst L. throwing his shoes off while lounging dramatically in the cart seat like a gangsta rapper, a fellow shopper annoyingly stated the obvious, "Someone doesn't like to listen."  I've learned to perfect the silent tight-lipped "smile" in response to these unhelpful declarations by strangers (who have oodles of child-free alone time, clearly.)

Sunday November 9, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Watching Morgan and Scarlet play together.  They are mini versions of Bart and Billy--they are very physical wild girls who adore each other.  One minute they had dress-up dresses on, the next minute (literally) the dresses were thrown to the ground and they were play wrestling and laughing their bums off.   Too funny.

Worst Part of the Day-

I made the call to go over to Lisa's and watch football with her and Bart's family.  I really wanted to have a chance to talk and visit.  I knew it was dicey as we planned to gather at noon and Liam was up early and would be fading by noon exactly, but I thought I could push him for a hour minimum.   We can do it!  I thought.  I had been in her home 1 minute and Liam had a horribly pungent diarrhea.  I quickly changed him and took the diap outside to the trash. Another minute later, another smelly poop.  I changed him again and sat down to chat and crack a beer and then Liam instantly gave signs he just wasn't feeling himself (sob, sob, sob)--I quickly understood we were gonna have to cruise (I think Scarlet still had her coat on.)  No talking, no visiting, no swilling for this single mom.  Who says Sundays are relaxing in the least??

Sunday November 9, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Hands Down it was the morning. I was on schedule to sleep in while Erik got up with the kiddos. But then he went the extra mile and brought me in a latte and the Sunday newspaper. I did what I haven't done in years - sipped coffee and read the entire front page with no interruptions. OH MY BLISS. This has been my (unspoken) dream for some time now and it was everything I imagined.

Worst Part of the Day - We took the kiddos to the Discovery Place again in the late afternoon. The task of getting the two boyz in the car is OUTRAGEOUSLY difficult (even with two adults on task). IMP has decided he doesn't like his car seat and so he arches his back to make it extra difficult to buckle him in. SB messes with the automatic door and says "no" to everything you say (except if you say "want ice cream?" Then he says "n ... YES!" EXHAUSTING - makes me want to just turn on Noggin and never take them anywhere. But I will try to supress these feelings.

Saturday November 8, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Having my 15 year-old babysitter compliment me on my 1.) sweater dress, 2.) boots and 3.) earrings.  Either I am crazy cool OR it is crazy clear that I shop in the teen section.   Still, a compliment is a compliment.

Worst Part of the Day-

A tie in the vastly fun world of GI distress:

1.) Liam had a yummy diarrhea incident in the bath this morning (with Scarlet in it.)  Scarlet screeched as loud as I have heard and bee lined out of there as Little L. stood naked crying--somehow feeling the yicky emotional shame of involuntarily pooping in a bath and the physical cramping of diarrhea.  Poor dude.  (Fun clean up.)

2.) On the way home from a 3 year-old B-day party this evening, Scarlet threw up 3 buckets full (not in honor of the B-day girl) in the back seat of the car.  Vomitus was splattered all over her brand spanking new winter coat, scarf, mittens and shoes as well as her and Liam's goody bags from the party (and just EVERYWHERE.)  This was an extra non-fun clean up.  

The car exiting process went like this:  I carried a crying, pukey/soiled girl out of the car and plopped her in the bathroom while I ran a bubbly in the freshly scrubbed bathtub.  I ran back down to get the crying boy from the car, quick changed him into jammies and put him down.  I ran back to the car to spray it down with cleaner and ran back up to check on sick girl.  I then lugged heavy as hell vacuum to the garage and scraped and cleaned in 20 degrees while my wet disgusting hands did what needed to be done--all while I had to go to the bathroom and really just wanted to be in flannel pj's on the couch.  See?  Non-fun.

Saturday November 8, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Took the kiddos to this indoor Mercado. Seriously a Mercado called Plaza Fiesta. You feel like you are walking in Mexico - complete with Mariachi band, flags above your head, Spanish all over and Mexican food, drinks and sweets. Whoa - we did cross the border (to South Carolina - heh, heh). But the best part (kiddo wise) was the huge indoor jungle gym type deal that the boyz played on for hours. We had met up with Erik's brother and his two boyz and all were dead tired by the end. (Actually the IMP was a bit over the jungle gym at first - but was happy to just walk around the Mercado and try to join in other people's Mexican feasts. Smart kid - the food did look greasy good.)

Worst Part of the Day - Were we getting cocky? Um, probably. We all (Erik's brother and his kiddos) went out to dinner and ... well it was more like it USUALLY is. Both boyz were whining and lightly crying as we entered the restaurant. Then after we were seated, IMP took his sippy cup and slammed the bottom of it into the salsa (sauce everywhere!). Then he threw my purse on the ground. Then he threw the bottom of the DVD player on the ground - CRASH!!! (this last one really was like SCREECH the music stopping in terms of all eyes upon us at the restaurant). SB now crying and whining rather loudly. Now I had already ordered a delish frozen marg with salt, so instead of aborting mission - we put on the DVD player and hoped for the best. Whew - it worked (and so did the tequila on my heart rate and sheer annoyance). Rest of the dinner calm due to our kiddos zoned out to Sesame Street. Boooooo.
Also could IMP have a lactose intolerance? Could he be allergic to wheat like his Papa? His diaper rashes are just getting worse and it's not right. We are removing most lactose first ... then we'll see.

Friday November 7, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Probably working my way through a Cardio Sculpt class (heavy on the cardio). I HATE CARDIO. But a class is the best way for me as I can't stop with so many people around. Still it was sweaty and hard and heart pumping. BLEACH. Still I felt pretty good afterward (and even ceased my hatred of the pert, fit, blond, southern accented instructor).

Best Part of the Day - Erik and I took the boyz to the playground and then dinner and once again ... easy sleazy. No problemo - IMP did not eat as much as the night before, but there was limited whining. Then home for baths, bed and a movie for us (The Strangers .... SO BAD!!! Can someone make a decent horror flick asap please?)

Friday November 7, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

It has taken me YEARS to remember to book in "me" time into my week.  Now that I have a great daytime sitter for Liam, today I finally took advantage.  I still feel a bit guilty (so stupid to feel that way!) getting a sitter for me to laze about (who am I kidding, there is no significant lazing and it is only for 3 hours...) I did read a book for an hour and it was a delight.  

Worst Part of the Day- 

Fridays continue to be my weak point.  I am simply dead tired by the end of the non-stop week. Tonight despite my intentions to open a bottle of yummy red wine and sip while watching Law and Order, I hit the sack with the kids at 7pm.  Friday nights are insane around here.

Thursday November 6, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I have solidified a sitter for both nights next weekend.  This small victory took more phone calls and more overall work (research) than it should take, but I am pleased.  It would be a heck of a lot easier if I could locate my manny.

Worst Part of the Day-

I am changing internet companies as I have been paying through the insane roof for 2.5 years without looking at the bill or even really knowing what I should be paying.  Screw you Time Warner!!  I got everything set up from AT&T and moment of truth--it does not work.   No signal, no DSL, no wireless.  No one at AT&T knows why this is happening.  One service tech man Iwith whom I talked acted like I was the biggest dumb ass broad ever to walk the earth.  Seriously, it's not working.  

Thursday November 6, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Oh hooray for preschool. I spent four hours just wandering around the city. I went to Target, a new (to me) organic market that is super close to our house and then the mall. I just walked slowly around in no sort of rush and breathed deeply in and out. I felt relaxed and refreshed by the time I picked up the boyz.
Later in the afternoon Erik and I took the boyz to the playground. It was late and Erik suggested dinner .... so we went for it. And it was (again!) really easy. The boyz sat nicely in their highchairs (SB insisted on it - I don't know if it was regression or the fact they had wheels on them). IMP ate more than I've seen him eat in months. Amazing. So fun and easy!
Also my fave show Survivor was hilarious and surprising - I was clapping and yelling at the tv (seriously).

Worst Part of the Day - SB being a bit of a NO Monster. Had figured out to use the computer as a bribe to behave - but it might have stopped working.
Also so tired of the house being a mess, yet not tired enough to actually clean it (as I know it will be destroyed one hour later.

Wednesday November 5, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Oh that IMP. I was only about 20 minutes into my fave workout when I see the childcare worker enter the workout room. Before I can even begin to offer up an incantation to the goddess of mothers trying to lose those last ten baby lbs ... she is upon me. Goll dern it. IMP was sad, sad, sad. And once I got him in the car he fell fast asleep. I think he might not be feeling all that well. Oops. However after his afternoon nap he was sprightly and happy - so maybe he was just really tired. That kid sure is sleeping lately -love it!
Also poor Erik working late for second evening in a row. No bueno!

Best Part of the Day - Instead of having the looong afternoon in the house and then outside our house for as long as I can run - we headed to the playground. I mean it's 67 degrees here and super sunny! WE MUST!!! It was wonderful for all of us - many parents were there with their progeny and all were very friendly. Much energy expelled (without me running after them and worrying about the street) and then it was dinner time. Hooray for NC in November! LOVE it!

Wednesday November 5, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I watched What the Bleep Do We Know?  A marvelously interesting flick that discusses the basics of Quantum Physics.  Among others, it touches on religious views, straight science and philosophy--asking the questions: What is consciousness?  What is reality?  How do we find enlightenment?  Super cool and makes me want to meditate ASAP and get started on figuring out the answers to these darn questions--immediately.  Zoinks, Einstein was one smarty pants. I do recommend checking out the movie.   www.whatthebleep.com

Also, still high on Obama!  

Worst Part of the Day- 

Will-O's car accident case was alleged to be settled by Thanksgiving.  I received an update call today stating it may not settle until January at best.  Arrrggghhh.  Looming, looming looming. All of the phone calls, emails, faxes that I must continue...just want it to be over.  

Tuesday November 4, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The kiddos did not have preschool! What a bummer. I think we ALL needed a break, but alas NC does not have school on election day. That seems crazy, but whateves. I can tell that IMP is not feeling well ... I probably would have been called to pick his sweet bum up from preschool anyways. It was a loooonnng afternoon .... whoa did the time go slow.

Best Part of the Day - I did tear up a bit when they announced Obama had won! What an amazing thing to witness. I truly am so proud! For the last week I was just having thoughts that maybe America is too racist to elect someone of color .... but HOORAY we're not. And to see the PASSION - amazing. Now he's got one helluva job ahead of him - best to rest up and pick some strong, good people to have in his cabinet(Obama, I'm available for any other really obvious advice you might want. After the last guy, you can never be too sure what is obvious). And I did watch McCain concession speech and thought it was really beautiful; full of grace and good sportsmanship. HOORAY for the peaceful transfer of power - man we're lucky to live in a place where it's run of the mill.

Ahhh - also the new fridge was delivered today. It's a cheapie, but it works well at keeping the food at the 40 degree level (who knew I would get so into a fridge thermometer - I check it every time I open the dern door and adjust the knobs accordingly).

Tuesday November 4, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
OBAMA. I was feeling more hopeful earlier today about the outcome (after being afraid to watch election coverage--due to post-traumatic stress issues after John Kerry lost...) Tonight after one Belgian White (Lakefront Brewery--yum) I was feeling brave and then downright giddy about seeing all of the blue states pop up.
The stars have aligned. The timing, our history, the people, the grassroots push--Barack. His speech was extrordinary. He seems to have the ability to truly inspire Americans. (That's what leaders do , right? We have been without a leader for so long, I kinda forgot.) He exudes a natural confidence--it allows us, the people, to believe him.
Yes we can!

Worst Part of the Day-
I was all wound up after Obama's victory speech. I could not settle down. It took hours and hours. I considered slamming another Belgian White just for sedative purposes. Just when I my heart rate was slowing and I was drifting off, my phone rang. It was Will-O giving cheers and congrats for me helping and being an Obama Mama. He promptly followed up his thoughts with, "Now I hope he doesn't get assasinated..." Come on, dude. That's what the Secret Service is for. Don't wake me and be a buzz kill.

Side Note-
Though McCain was fumbling through his speech, he seemed the most REAL he has been during this whole lengthy campaign. Less puppet-like, more stand-up guy. He was gracious and I think his message was important: Let's work together.
FYI McCain supporters--a landslide means a ton of people don't agree with ya.

Monday November 3, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Just the living without the fridge is bringing me down. The landlord called and the new one will be delivered tomorrow. In the meantime - lukewarm milk, anyone?

Also, weirdly, SB has begun to wail when I leave him at the gym childcare. So weird. The woman who watches the kiddos did say to me "you know as soon as you leave he stops." Which I know to be true - but it's still such a funny thing. Now IMP just waltzes in without a backward glance. SB is also insisting on being carried most places which is difficult because IMP needs constant supervision in parking lots and is easier carried. Makes the trek to and from the car soooo much more difficult!

Best Part of the Day - Began plans to meet up with cousins for a much needed gals weekend ... makes me happy just thinking about it!!!

Monday November 3, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Today was 72 degrees--crazily perfect.  What up, global warming?!  

Also, tonight was the last soccer practice/game for Scarlet and I as a daughter-mother/player-coach entity.  (I think this may conclude my coaching career with S.)  It was a fun night and a great end to our season.  (Secretly I am pleased to have one less obligation on the calendar...)

Worst Part of the Day-

Little Man L. continued his nap strike today despite himself.  He was soooo tired and sensitive (thus a crying mess) by 5pm.  But mean ol' Mommy wouldn't let him down until bedtime...

Also Little Man L. dumped out all of my coveted ($12) Irish Sea Salt and then played in the small pile of it as if he were on a beach of white sand--all done while I quickly went to the bathroom...geez

Sunday November 2, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

The kids and I spent the night at my parent's for a lil change of scene.  It was great to have a chipper G-ma Barb entertain my chatty "morning person" girl in the wee hours this AM.  

Also breakfast and coffee made for me and served to me is always a scrumptious treat.  

Worst Part of the Day-

Liam has a large goose egg in the center of his forehead after a shady incident with his sister.  She claims "he hit himself with a block."  Fishy.  Just before bed this eve, Liam slipped in his footie jammies and biffed it down the steps.  (They are carpeted, but still.)  He now has an abrasion/mini-shiner under his left eye as well.  What is up, Bruiser Boy??

Funniest Comment of the Day-

Scarlet posed one of her "Guess what I'm thinking of, Mom?"  Oh I don't know--pink princesses, school chaps, Obama?  "I've been thinking of going to Hawaii.  And then I'm thinking of moving there.  I've been thinking of this for awhile.  I really want to do the hula dance there."  Oh my.  Don't you need an adult chaperone for this?  And a credit card?

Saturday November 1, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Sleeping in.  Ya know it's true!  I went out with Lisa last night and we hit up a house party and then just out in costume.  It helped to rest and wake when I deemed it a reasonable time.  The whole fall back thing can really only be appreciated if your early rising kids are at someone else's home.  Love it!!

Worst Part of the Day-

This will sound bad, but today worst part has to do with my volunteer shift for the Obama campaign.  It was semi-brutal.  I signed up to canvas today, Sunday and Monday.  The deal is you walk for your assigned shift of 4 hours and knock on doors to remind known Obama supporters to vote and inform them when and where, blah blah blah.  (Doesn't everyone know this stuff?)  Thank heavens today was 70 degrees and breezy.  I was still DONE after 1.5 hours of hoofing it with a clip board in hand.  My time spent did not seem to make a huge impact or even serve as helpful.  Isn't there some other way I can assist the Obama camp?  I may have to call in sick tomorrow.

Friday October 31, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

Hmmm.  Truly this Trick or Treat session was WAAAY better than last Sunday.  But, I will state there really should 1:1 ratio of adults:kids at this phase.   Then it would be no biggie.  I take one, you take one.  It is tricky (yes, pun) for me to handle both...Anyhoo, Trick or Treat was a success from 5:30pm to 6:40pm and super duper fun at night!  

The real worst part is that my chilluns are both ready for bed and used to bed promptly at 7pm. Scarlet naturally wakes at 6am and then had a huge day of Y camp with major physical activity (swimming!  Ma lord, that's an energy zapper!) AND a Halloween party.  She was hitting the wall at 6:45pm--she could barely walk straight--it was weird.  Liam was done at 7pm (no nap for 12 days now.)  I delivered the kids to my parents at 7:30pm and they were both hot, sobbing messes.  Sorry.

Best Part of the Day-

I walked the hilly walking trails at the Y this afternoon.  It was 70 degrees and perfect outside! I made several much needed phone calls and walked and talked for over an hour.  Delightful.

Sunday November 2, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The fridge, the fridge, the fridge. After smelling spoilt milk this morning (and having to run to Starbucks for coffees and Horizon milk drinks), I called the landlord this morning and they started making plans. So they are going to give us their extra fridge as a temp fix. Well after getting the old fridge out (after Erik and he working on it for a hour and a half), he realizes that the other fridge is way too big and won't fit through our small 1950 doors (people needed less than apparently). SOOOO we put all our food in bags and send it to them. And guess what? This is getting so, so, SO annoying. I'm OVER it. New (to me) fridge please!
Also parents left EARLY this morning and when SB figured this out he started bawling. They'll be back, little one. They'll be back.

Best Part of the Day - We went to the Discovery Place this afternoon. It was a great place to kill two plus hours with a special place for the six and under set that was a HUGE hit. Tons of hands on, kid friendly stuff. Then we went (gasp) out to dinner due to our fridge situation (if you haven't heard, I'm ANTI taking the two monkeys out to dinner). And it was ... fine. Actually SB was excellent. He sat in his chair the entire time and ate four slices of pizza (it was a smaller pie, but still!) And the IMP? He was decent. Not great, but decent. And he was strapped in a high chair, so there were no shenanigans. Wow - not bad. Gives me hope for the future. Now let hope this daylight savings doesn't really screw up the sleeping in we've been doing lately (average of 7:30 a.m.! It's like angels singing!)
Also - kudos to Erik and I. We almost got in a little scuffle and then we both backed off, apologized and went on with the day. Let's keep it up team R.

Saturday November 1, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The fridge is soooo warm. Landlord comes over to fix it (hooray!) After four hours the temperature is actually .... FREAKIN' WARMER. Sigh, sigh, SIGH.

Best Part of the Day - My mom and I took the boyz to the teeny Nature Museum. It was a very nice outing until IMP stole hand puppets from the theatre area and then threw them in the turtle pond. Really - is that necessary? I was scared to get them, but my mom just fished them out. Then we took our leave. Then after dropping the boyz off for naps, my mom and I had a nice lunch and tour o' Charlotte with my mom. Then a happy afternoon with mom, dad, and Erik and din din and football. Perfectly Midwestern fun in the Sunny South.

- um how can it already be NOVEMBER?? Wow.

Friday October 31, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The fridge. Still working on the fridge. Our landlord came over to try and do a temporary fix while they search for the correct part .... it didn't quite work and I am getting OVER having a lukewarm fridge. The landlord is soooo nice and is trying hard so I can't be even remotely beatchy .... but I'm wanting to!

Also IMP's diaper rash is still pretty bad - poor thing.

Best Part of the Day - Halloween was a blast. It took some doing to get the babies ready - but then we walked to the annual neighborhood party. (Amazing that SB would wear the Sumo Wrestler costume - I really did not think he would.) We met tons of people -most our age with kiddos. There was plenty of red wine (that could be seen as a good or bad thing!) and food for the kiddos. Then my mom and dad took Super Dog (aka Clarence home) while we stayed and partied on. Then Erik and I took both boyz Trick or Treating for about 20 minutes. Then dropped off IMP to the parentals and took SB out for a hour and a half longer. At first he was unsure and then he was a total trooper and got the Trick or Treat system down. Also so many of the people we met at the party, we then saw again giving out treats. Very fun to actually know people.

SB as Sumo Wrestler

IMP as SUPER Boy