Saturday August 30, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Packing, packing and more packing. So tired.

Best Part of the Day - Erik and I usually have an EPIC fight each time we pack up and move (which seems to be often). This time it is all fun and games and laughs (as much as packing can be). And he is a SUPER STAR packer. While I got one room done - he got THREE completed. Wow. And then we had tons of fun picking out dinner items at the supermarket and renting a video. As nice a day as packing up a home could ever be. How grand.

Friday August 29, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The impending doom that packing must begin manana. UGH!

Best Part of the Day - My mom was a gem today. She happily played with the boys, put them down for naps, assured me that she could not WAIT to take care of them for two full weeks, sympathized with me on my crazy next two weeks and then drove my ass to the airport. It felt so much better leaving them with someone who clearly WANTS to do it. How great and what a nice relief.
Also had a nice, long dinner out with Erik and two of his old co-workers who picked us up from the airport.
And the mold in the basement?? Hardly ANY ... um thanks a LOT for all the worrying I did for the last two weeks Miss Realtor.

Thursday August 28, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I found myself with a lil bit o' free time after working in the wee morn, yet before an afternoon meeting (Thursdays are supposed to be my free day afterall...).  I went to the crazily popular mall just a mile from work.  I took my sassy eye glasses in for the free annual adjustment (they literally fall off of my face since I stupidly let Liam use them as a play toy--sometimes it's just easier to let him play with the object of his desire).  I have never taken up any of the bizillion offers of "free" services with crap that I buy: camera lens cleaning, frame adjustments, vacuum filter changing, etc.  Today I did it.  I felt like a highly organized consumer.  It felt good.  And I look way less mentally ill with glasses that are not crooked on my face 100% of the time.

Also I bought 2 super cute (sweat shop labor, I am certain) shirts for $2.99 each.   Yeah for me, and I justify at that price, the sweat shop laborers were paid an almost fair wage--yeah for them?

Worst Part of the Day-

I rarely go to the mall, but when I do I enjoy the food court thang.  I often find myself at Sbarro Pizza as I must emotionally link my mall experiences with the scrumptious Sbarro.  Today I was a dissatisfied Sbarro customer.  The pizza dough was simultaneously doughy and rock hard.  It sucked.  I spent more on the pizza, bread stick & drink combo than I did on my 2 super cute shirts.  Boo.    

Thursday August 28, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Okay .. this is SOOO lame. But I had two Buffy the V-pire slayers that were supposed to come yesterday. Only one came and OF COURSE it's disk five, not disk four. Sigh, sigh. It will come today, I tell myself. NOPE. Oh man. Tom Petty's right - waiting IS the hardest part.

Best Part of the Day - Already about 80% packed for NH packing party that commences tomorrow ... this is a new thang for me (I like to pack in a heated rush about 20 minutes before we MUST leave for the airport. WELL I don't LIKE this frenzied pace, but it seems to end up like this these past months. I used to be an excellent, thoughtful packer, but that seemed to go away at some point).
Also told Erik I am in a fragile state and he must ply me with soft words and fine compliments during our packing party. So far he is on board - although the compliments did ring a tich false as they were the exact words I had given him as an example. Oh well - I'll take it. His last words tonight were "we'll have some fun too." I sure hope so - could use some lighthearted fun.

Wednesday August 27, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O left for musak stuff in Chicago today...that means Mama got to sit on the luscious couch (in peace) and watch the Democratic National Convention. (Why is it called the Pepsi Center? Pepsi always reminds me of pepsinogen--a gastric acid...were there no focus groups to ward against that name? Guess it doesn't matter...) Obama/Biden---I am giddy with excitement.

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O put a fancy soda (one of those from Whole Foods that costs $2.00--not Pepsi--Will-O is not down...) in the freezer to get it nice n' cold for his drive to Chicago. It was black cherry flavor in a glass bottle that looks super cool and old school. Anyway, he left without it and when I went to get dinner ready for the kids I was bummed (to say the least) to see an explosion of dark pink slush and shattered glass splattered over the entire freezer. Dude.

Tuesday August 26, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

The kids are back on the healthy scene. I felt good about this and comfortable enough to head out for some High Life Lights and friend fun chit chat sitting outside in the chilly summer night. Nice.

Worst Part of the Day-

I usually work quite early in the morn or later in the day so rarely do I find myself driving in the heat of rush hour. Today I found myself in the thick of it---eee gads. Just as I thought no car would ever let me turn right onto a packed major street, a truck paused and the pause itself seemed to wave me in. As I happily pulled in front of the truck I could see the driver clearly and I could see he was on the phone and perhaps not even aware of letting me in. All of a sudden he started going and almost hit me! Geez. I glared at the driver and he said clearly "f*****ing stupid bitch!" I looked closer and noticed a Verlo mattress shirt on the driver and even better, Verlo Mattress printed clearly on the side of the truck. I gave him one look, mouthed "Verlo" to him and got on the phone. (Wish I had that iPhone...) I called information and asked for Verlo Mattress and then quite old lady-like proceeded to tattle on the naughty cussing driver. It's fine to swear at fellow drivers if you must, just don't wear your work shirt while driving your work truck and swear at a beeyatch who WILL call your boss. Your goin down, sucka.

Wednesday August 27, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - We lost 'Froggie Softie' for six hours today. What the HILL (spelling intentional) is Froggie Softie? Only IMP's bestest snuggly friend. The friend who lulls him to sleep at night, cures a bout of crying and is a germ friendly zone of god knows what. I looked and looked and looked for him ... he was last seen being carried by IMP possibly outside (Froggie Softie is an agoraphobic (according to me) so this would be very rough on him.) Finally after a crap naps by both boyz (hard to sleep without him) I find Froggie Softie outside, over a railing, lying in the sand. A tearful reunion ensues and then Froggie Softie is promptly dropped on the ground with a fake "uh oh". Very cavalier for one previously in such despair.

Best Part of the Day - Another babysitter is found to help my parents out while I am gone for two weeks. Hooray! Now I can feel much better about leaving.

Tuesday August 26, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - My emotional roller coaster continues it's crazy ride. But seriously - I was simply trying to use the computer, not create drama regarding my mother sneakily eating ice cream by herself in her room. It's a stupid story - trust me. But I do think that my parents are just about at the end of their ropes regarding me and the kiddos in their abode. I feel bad (I mean REALLY, how much more can I ask of them??) but I need their help still. And the dumb ass babysitter I had set up to take off some of the burden cancelled today! AARRGGH.

Also SB threw up right before dinner. Poor thang - then he just lethargically laid about until it was time for bed (he did manage to make me read about seven books - so he can't be too sick).

Best Part of the Day - Yoga class. For several minutes in a row I forgot all about the other stuff and just stretched and breathed.

Also, we (don't call Family and Child Services on me) locked IMP's door. He tried to get up at 4:56 a.m., found his door locked, cried for about two minutes and then went back to sleep until SEVEN AYEM! Whoa!! Can't cry total success quite yet - but it's a start!

Monday August 25, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - IMP got me up at 3:30 a.m. Sigh, sigh. Something has to give here.

Then this afternoon, empowered by my new "I can take two under three to the beach all by my lonesome" can-do type attitude, I cheerfully suited 'em up and brought 'em down. Then ze IMP wailed for the majority of the time until I gave up and brought 'em back.

Best Part of the Day - Excellent work out, kiddos excellent at the gym, excellent naps, excellent weather. Parents also came home in sunny moods and must have been pleased to see the tidy cottage (even though no words were expressed in this manner, I'm just SURE they thought it).

Monday August 25, 2008

Worst Part of the Day-

Both kiddos woke up with high fevers and glassy ol' eyes....arrrghh.  (Too much fun in da sun, perhaps.)  Scarlet complained of a headache (her first) and neck ache and general body aches all day.  The Motrin seemed to only partially work on her symptoms...

The Real Worst Part of the Day (but I am sick of talking about it)-

Will-O seemed a little harsh with Scarlet (a bit insensitive) and accused her of being whiney.  It seemed remedial to have to remind him that she was illin and had a 104 fever.  Seriously? When I brought it up to him he apologized and said it was his irritation with me coming out at her.  That makes little sense to me and is not acceptable.  She's 4 and she doesn't feel well!  I come from the camp of when someone is sick they can be coddled and get to be whinier than norm...I also come from the camp of if anyone is irritated with me, please tell me and we will discuss--leave the children out of it.

Best Part of the Day-

Both kiddies took a nap (after I appropriately drugged them with the magic Motrin).  They both slept for 3 hours!   Which meant I got to read my book and then snoozed away while the kids rested their way back to health.  

Sunday August 24, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - TOO MUCH TV was watched today. Terrible, terrible ... makes me feel guilty.
Also there was Mass on the beach and we tried to attend with no real luck. After it was over, I headed back to get dinner going. I heard the front door slam and noticed SB was no longer around. But he probably was just right outside. But as I called for him, I realized he was no where to be found. At about ten minutes missing, my heart rate is just starting to elevate as I race around with IMP in my arms, when he was found. Just hanging out close by where the Mass had been with his toy lawn mower. Oh man.

Best Part of the Day - The boys and I did a beach morning with much success. It was as relaxing as taking two youngins to the beach could be. Then they had sink baths, lunch and nice semi-long naps. A nice, nice morning o' fun.

Saturday August 23, 2008

Best Part of the Day - Another lovely beach day and photo shoot for the young cousins. Plus Stacia was still here until noon which was (as always) super fun. IMP was in a great mood for a majority of the day which always makes things a tich sunnier. We headed to the gym around 4:15 and by the time we got back - suppertime.
Good for me to have some alone time - put the kids to bed early and vegged.

Worst Part of the Day - Still feeling weird about last night - Megan and I talked it through. I just still feel lousy - not necessarily about the argument, just in general.
Short, short naps taken by both kiddos (wanting to get up and see their pals Scar and Liam??)
Also sad, sad to see Babs, Megan and the kiddos go ....

Friday August 22, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I've never had a Perfect Emotional Storm - but looking back I think the situation was overwrought for me. I haven't had more than five total hours of sleep at night in over a week (I really, really (REALLY) need eight plus), I have moving stress, house guests, hormonal issues due to menstruation .... I swear I've never felt this way before and it feels lousy. I NEED to get to September 15 without totally losing it. I had this feeling that Megan was somehow insulting me and it felt terrible for both of us and it still makes me feel shaky. I think that way too much is going on and I somehow need to come to grips.

Best Part of the Day - So many good parts - beach with the kiddos with cousins in the morning, playground with cousins in the afternoon, my pal Stacia made a Herculean effort to come visit me (she has a wedding Saturday night about three hours away), Babs babysat so we could all go out to dinner. Lovely, lovely - let's stop and appreciate the fine things for a bit.

Sunday August 24, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I was able to run errands in peace as I went sans kids and sans schedule this morning.  It was downright fun to take my time, get yummy (mommy's legal crack) coffee drink, and scout out clearance sales without rushing around like a freak show!!!

Also--peace offering continues:  Will-O gave me a great neck massage after kids were in bed. That sure beats arguing over the oddest things.   

Worst Part of the Day-

Liam felt warmer than usual when he woke up this morn but I didn't think a thing of it as he was not whiney or whimpery.  After his afternoon nap, he again felt very warm to the touch and was still acting cheery, but my nurse instincts took over and I forced (gently) the rectal temp. The poor lil man was 102.  It is perplexing as he was not acting down and out, but a temp means something is brewing.  (Shout out to Reitter boyz...sorry if the germs originated here!)  We shall see how the night pans out.  

Saturday August 23, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Had the much needed (imperative per my perspective as I was feeling physically sick about it--I simply could not have left the state without this chat!) clear the air talk with friend/cousin about last night's issue.  Decided/agreed that this (like most issues in life) might have been created by the culmination of:  alcohol, stress, hormones, lack of sleep, needing the damn village to help raise the kids (where is that village?) and unnecessary (meaningless) comments.  

Also arrived home to spotless home with gorgeous wildflowers in a vase on the piano.  An extended olive branch (perhaps?) from Will-O.  Nice touch.

Worst Part of the Day-

Liam was a bit hard to handle on the ferry ride home as he quite typically did not want to sit relaxedly in his chair--he wanted to run free and explore!  My mom or myself had to carry or walk with him for the 2 hour duration.  (Yes, it could have been WAY worse, but I did want to simply sit the heel down and could not...)

Thursday August 21, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I kept the chitlins on the lowest level of the cottage so as to try and create a peaceful morning wake up for Pate and her boy Bill. All was well until at 7:20 a.m. the baby bulls insisted on being taken up to the main level. Fine, fine. But ze IMP .... something was not correct with the way his smoothie was served and he FREAKED out and cried and cried and cried (and cried). Whew. Finally Pate and then Bill came on down and he joyously greeted them and forgot his sadness and madness.
Also had a moment when I was trying to get the kiddos fed and ready for bed and was being asked lots of questions and there were lots o' people in the kitchen and I felt very hot and .... suddenly I just felt all the stress of the last weeks sitting on me. I took deep breaths and soon once again felt thankful and damn lucky to have all these wonderful adults and children in my presence. Whew. Must get to September 10!


Best Part of the Day - Got preschool secured for SB (and for IMP - they have a 18 month old program - hooray!) Megan, Babs and kiddos showed up right on time - impressive!! Had a super fun playground cousin fun time with all the kiddos. Amy Gast showed up just as we were about to eat (shades of her father - heh heh) - so great to see her. Was served up an amazing meal by Babs and Bill. Had too much red wine while SLAUGHTERING the oldies at 80's Trivial Pursuit. Much laughter, inappropriate comments, smack talk and wild guesses ensued during said Trivial Pursuit game. And up waaaay too late.

Friday August 22, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

An amazing beach experience with kids playing and adults talking/playing/watching that was relaxing and recreational for all.  Loved seeing little "cousins" holding hands, making sand castles and romping cheerfully in the sand and surf.  This beach is outta sight.  

Worst Part of the Day-

A gross misinterpretation between cousins/friends.  Like all misinterpretations, I don't know how it spiraled out of intention and I feel ill about it.  

Thursday August 21, 2008

Best Part(s) of the Day-

We safely made it to Michigan!!  We made great travel time, visited with a lucid/congenial Grandma, had yummy dinner feast and slaughtered (if I dare say) the "oldies" at 80's Trivial Pursuit.  Super duper fun with waaayyyy too much red vino. 

Strangest (Tipsy) Moment of the Day-

I do believe I called my mom a "mo fo" in the heat of board game taunting--not angrily/offensively; more like an absurd pet name...she also had much wine and didn't seem phased by it...guess ya had to be there...)

Worst Part of the Day-

We rushed to the ferry at 5am.  The kids were affable, though obviously sleepy.  The waves on the great lake were high so it was pretty choppy and the ferry attendants warned us to stay seated as much as possible.  I plopped in an Elmo dvd in my laptop to placate the kids and instead of Liam cheering/chanting "Elmo", he started crying/whining and then began throwing up all over both of us.  Poor seasick buddy.  

Wednesday August 20, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - After being put to bed, IMP got himself up at 9:00 p.m. (just as I was starting to relax with my beer and Buffy). I was so annoyed and then noticed that she was having these weird shakes .... it freaked me out. I felt sooo helpless. I was trying to read on the Internet and then he tried to walk and fell. So I just held me and then laid with him and the shakes just went away .... Will ask Megan C about it manana.

Best Part of the Day - Jill and her grrls and me and the boyz went down to the beach and it was sooo fun. My boyz were not in swimsuits (it seemed chilly at first), but SB has straight in the water up to his waist. Oh my. Then we took a walk down the beach, played in the sand, and waded in the water. It was such a nice, lovely time!!
Also Cousin Pate comes in tonight - can't wait to see her and Bill.

Tuesday August 19, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The stress is abuildin' regarding our pending move. NOW it seems that the carpenter ant removal will be a minimum of $300 and this does not include the meece who have taken up residence. Also we need a dehumidifier STAT as pre-packed boxes (So glad we were so organized) are now covered with mold and so the GROWING MUST BE STOPPED. Erik refused to pay one red cent for any removal stating that the house is 'as is'. Finally as this is coming to a head .... the Realtor (sensing that Stubborn German husband o' mine is not going to budge) says she will pay for the infestation issues. Well .... there you have it.

Best Part of the Day - Jill and her grrls came to visit (Meara age 4 and Susie age 2). After the boyz got up from their naps we walked to the playground, walked home, had dinner (so hilarious - looked like a bomb went off), got everyone bathed and pj-ed and sent them all to bed. Then Jill and I had pizza, some booze and lots and lots of conversation. Sigh - a really, really nice day. Felt stress lifting ....

Wednesday August 20, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I bucked up and told Will-O it seemed like he needed a hug.  We embraced.  It was nice. Hopefully this silly fighting ends--it is not becoming (for anyone).   He wrote a song based on our issues and it was staggering to hear the final product today.  For a tardy counter-culture anarchist, Will-O has what it takes it in the song writing world.   Zoinks.  (Wish I could link it now, but I am not tech savvy enough...)

Worst Part of the Day-

The garbage collectors got stung by the highly annoying wasps/hornets that apparently (and pretty clearly) live in a small cozy nest on the underside of our garbage can.  They left a note stating they did not collect the garbage today and would not collect it until the nest is removed.  They will also fine us if it isn't removed by next Wed.  Arrrggghhh.  Say, Will-O, want to remove a nest full of angry wasps/hornets????

Tuesday August 19, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

At Scarlet's urging to be "old fashioned", both kids took a bath in the backyard using the hose, a large bucket and a bar of soap.  Very refreshing (i.e. ice cold), very 1870's.  

Worst Part of the Day-

Wow.  Perhaps we will have a messy '80's-style divorce after all.  Tremendously dorky fighting is going on between Will-O and myself.  Seriously draining, straining and stupid-o.  

Much like last Tuesday Will-O did not have the kids up and ready to go in the morning and Scarlet was once again over 1 hour late for her preschool/summer camp thing.  Will-O's response: "Not everything needs to be done the way you do it!  This is not a dictatorship."  (It's not?)  Perhaps not the way I do it, but how about the way the preschool does it?  Ahem--on time.  (Ya know what the rule is about people who are late--self-centered--if I dare say.)  

Anyhoo, the real implication is that this running lateness causes Scarlet undue stress.  And the real implication for me is that Will-O thinks this is me against him.  

Monday August 18, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Found my driver's license!!!  Woo-hoo.  Scarlet found it and delivered it to me in high spirits. Thank heavens no unnecessary DMV por moi.  

Worst Part of the Day-

A terrible evening of work as many of the girls (and even much of the staff) were in bad, bad moods.  Yelling, screaming, crying and the whole bit.  The full moon is over, people!

Sunday August 17, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
Went back to Irish Fest with parents and Scarlet for the late afternoon/eve. (It really is a good festival!) Saw dern good music and fantastic young dancers while sipping cold beer from Lakefront Brewery (mmmm, Cattail Ale is yummy). It was delightful to be semi-relaxed as watch Scarlet seek out and actively befriend (very plainly, "do you want to be my friend?" "yes" was always the answer) each child aged 3-5 that came into her path. Also ran into fun and funny people whom I haven't seen in years and years.

Worst Part of the Day-
It is clear that my dad does not wish to engage in any conversation with me deeper than weather chit chat. It is strange. Truly we have not had a conversation in years. Also he made mention that he knows I have this blog and could easily access it, but has not done so. (I feel if my child had a blog I would read it.)

Monday August 18, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The boyz are regressing! IMP got me out of my Hour o' Power class (ugh!). Then both wailed and wailed upon putting them to bed - this is highly odd. But my militant sleep training kicked in after about eight minutes and both were snoozing away (hopefully for the night).
Also am dealing with the fall out from the home inspection - but Erik has decided to take over. That's a good thang as I can actually feel the stress of it all in my frontal lobe. Is that normal?

Best Part of the Day - Have SO many guests to look forward to! My MU pal Jill is coming tomorrow with her two little gals. My aunt Patti and her beau are coming on Wednesday night. Babs, Megan and the two little O'Neills will come Thursday and then my fun DC pal Stacia comes on Friday night. Whew - must dig into my social-ness Gast gene and put on my boozing boots. Can't wait!

Sunday August 17, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Um what could be worse than arriving at your first airport at 12:35 p.m and not arriving at your destination until 8:35 p.m. What the ....... did I book this in this fashion?? And was I really at O'Hare for over three hours? I exhausted all my reading materials and was stuck (on the last leg) reading the in flight magazine. ugh.

Best Part of the Day - Erik and I had a nice manana. Then upon arriving home to the cottage - the Season Two season finale (two parts) was there ... so I watched both. Was so tired -but it was SO worth it!! Loved it!
Also - had a good phone conversation with my mom regarding our miscommunication on Thursday (and she brought it up - in a round about way, but still.) I thought that was great and felt very cleansing (for me - she might have hated it. But we must give to our children, no?)

Saturday August 16, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - There were still tensions with Erik and I until late morning. And we found out yesterday that our home HAD been inspected without our knowledge or within the contractual time frame. And now there is trauma and drama regarding carpenter ants and meece. Erik is up in arms but (shocker) it is left to me to deal with the fall out.

Best Part of the Day - A blissful, child free boating excursion to a sandbar leaves me feeling "why the hell am I angry, again?" Delish, delish, delish. I can't be mad after this sunny and lovely swimming and boating trip .... all is well (after I tell Erik that we are a team and that I realize we are STRESSED to our limit and must remain calm - me especially.) Also I drank a Hemingway Daiquiri and must HIGHLY recommend. Amazing - no wonder he was such a drunk-o.

Saturday August 16, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
Went to a Passion Party (imaginations may run wild). It was pretty fun and funny and I did my best to slam my drinks and burst out laughing at my own jokes.

Worst Part of the Day-
I heard some serious trouble in paradise news regarding a couple whom I love. It makes me very sad (though I am hopeful as they are good peeps). It gives me that sinking nauseous feeling I get over love issues (mine or others I care about...) Let's get it together, couples of America!!!

Friday August 15, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I took the chitlens down to Irish Fest. I easily happened upon street parking not far from the main gate and then we got in for free (had no idea it was free prior to 5pm). Without much planning we managed to see Scarlet's buddy, Elizabeth, back stage prior to her Irish Dance performance and then we were able to see E. perform with zero obstruction (it was packed and Liam wanted to dance and run free out of my arms). The kids happily played in the KidZone in the water area and on the playground. My dad randomly spotted Liam in the water area as he was walking by (you can't miss that little old man toddler with long locks! But peeps--there were thousands of people at this fest and my dad just happened to be walking by and spotted his only grandson frolicking in the water--crazy). My phone was dead so I wrote off trying to meet up with anyone...yet many things seemed to fall into place.

Universe-are you telling me I still have some Irish luck left in this life?

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O and I had a blow out when I arrived home from Irish Fest. Another argument over misinterpretation. Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. To say the least it took the wind out of my sails and snuffed out my spark to go back down to Irish Fest to meet up with peeps and have a well-deserved beer (or do whiskey shots until I cry and then sing songs about deceased pals) in honor of my heritage.

I guess the stupid/silly fight does validate my question of Am I doing the right thing? It still bites.

Happy B-day to Cousin KEG!!! (Wish we were partying with you in Denver...)

Thursday August 14, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I had to take Scarlet with me at 5:45am to do my morning jogging with the girls.  She was chipper and wonderful and I could think of no other human I would've rather been with/had fun with at that hour.  She even ran the full 2 miles, showing those lazy teens what is up.  (She does have 2 legs up, though, with her serious power thighs).  

Worst Part of the Day- 

I like to chaperone 1 field trip/summer for Scarlet's preschool program and today was my day.  It was a trip to Miller Park and we planned on touring the field (dugouts, press box and all), playing at the playground on site, watching a Special Olympics little league game, eating a picnic lunch and heading back.  Whew--it was a lot on the agenda.  Scarlet's Lead Teacher left yesterday for maternity leave and the other current teacher was on vacation so today there was a new woman named, Velvet, who did not seem equipped to effectively handle preschoolers.  Thank the lord above that I was there as well as 2 other dads who were exceptional (both previous teachers).  The three of us parents had the kids singing, clapping, playing and basically kept them in check and on task while Velvet huffed and puffed and sat fanning herself looking pretty overwhelmed.  Scarlet said at the end of the trip, "I don't think that lady is a very good teacher."  Uh huh.   

Friday August 15, 2008

Best Part of the Day - We found and successfully rented a rental home (with plush pink carpet no less). It's in a great neighborhood with tons of families and walkable to the library. The landlords live next door with their family and it should be a perfect fit.

Worst Part of the Day - Well it had to happen - the stress of selling out home (complete with a uh oh on our home inspection), renting a home, creating a budget, anticipating packing up the NH house, figuring out how to get the kids down to Charlotte ... it is taking it's toll on Erik and I. And while I know this is just a stressful time - it's still hard (and both of us are to blame for the light to medium bickering). We'll just go ahead and look forward to mid-September when the majority of this is over.

Thursday August 14, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I leave today for Charlotte and my mom tells me at the last minute (after much passive aggressive "oh we REALLY don't care") that I am going to drive myself to the airport. Well by this point I have to hustle (I do arrive late to airports - it's just how I'm wired, but when someone else is driving me, I have loads more time). I get to the airport, can't find the parking at first, wrestle with the ongoing construction and then cannot find the USAir check in. I'm running up and down the airport just feeling the time slipping away. Finally someone tells me "oh it's United." Huh - could we get a SIGN? I get through security and all is well (except this dude did skip the line saying he had a 1:30 p.m. flight and then was on MY flight. But I do think he might have been looking at the boarding time, so I forgive him.)

Also my mom and I had a tense moment before I left. I just really wish she could be more honest with me in a direct way. And I'm sure she wishes lots of stuff from me too - but it's MY blog. And I think more importantly, we can now begin the countdown of giving them back their life. They have been amazing to take us in - but I think it is all wearing a bit thin on all of us (except the kiddos - they just love it.)

Best Part of the Day - Hooray - made it to Charlotte 20 minutes early. I got off the plane, went to the bathroom and by the time I got out my blue Hawaiian bag was circling on the baggage claim. Then Erik, Chris (his brother), Ann (Chris' wife) and I all went out for yummy margaritas and Mexican food. Deelish. Let the fun weekend begin!!

Wednesday August 13, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - SB seems to be regressing. Also he is sick, so maybe that is it. But today for nap AND bedtime, he crawled into the crib that IMP abandoned two weeks ago. I am a forward thinking type - I can see only moving forward even if to others it might appear to be moving back, so this "back to crib" thing is weird to me.

Best Part of the Day - The boyz RAN into the gym daycare today. It was so great to see. And, of course, we now only have two more weeks to use it. Sigh, sigh, sigh.
Also did secure a babysitter to help out my parents for a couple hours three days a week while I'm doing the moving thang. My mom kept insisting that she didn't need any help - but truly I've never seen her more in need of a break from the kiddos. And this is not a dis on her - it's just that when you have young kiddos like this you need a break. It's no big deal - but I think it just needs to be said and then action needs to be taken. Like me, for instance, leaving for Charlotte tomorrow. Action taken!

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - We finally got the boyz into see G-Ma (that my and Megan's mom's mother - our grandmother). It is so hard to see her and to try to talk with her - she's in and out of understanding the conversation. So mostly I just sat with her as the boyz played on the wonderful outdoor playground (she is in an assisted care facility that also houses a daycare. Whew - talk about opposite ends of the spectrum.) Then we were supposed to take the boyz to the Meijer Botanical Gardens, but both were totally beat. I think SB might be coming down with something. Poor G-Ma - I miss the one who would tell me highly edited stories about her life.

Best Part of the Day - IMP was a total sweet with G-Ma. He shared his Cheerios with her, made her laugh and sat on her lap as GiGi wheeled them back from the playground. It twas adorable.

Wednesday August 13, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I came home from work around 3:45pm and found Scarlet decked out in the outfit she wore this past Christmas Eve.  She had a matching purse on her arm and declared our family outing this week (we try to at least one event all together each week) would be dinner at a "fancy" restaurant.  She had picked out outfits for each one us and we got dressed right away (I was starving).  We were stylin at 4pm at a run-of-the-mill Mexican place.  I had on an off-white silky number with black very high heels.  Will-O had on a shirt, tie and suit pants (downright formal for him--S. gushed to him "yeah, baby...looking good!")  Scarlet was in a child-sized Mrs. Claus get-up and Liam in his pastel Easter wear.  It was a successful dining experience for all and we were for once the best dressed family (and most colorful) on the block--fo sho.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I found out that I inadvertently forwarded an email to a parent of one of our girls at work.  I absent-mindedly sent this dad an email in which one of our social workers (a great one) alluded to this dad as being very annoying (he is) and even called his constant emailing about nonsense "sh*tty".   Doh.  Needless to say, that is a "no no" and I feel sh*tty.   

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I successfully fell fast asleep at 8pm for the night.  (I am typically a midnight kinda girl).  I slept great and felt totally refreshed and went down to get a drink and check the clock and it was only 10:30pm. Woo-hoo.

Worst Part of the Day-

I came home from work this mid-morning and there was chaos and irritability in the home.  Will-O was admittedly quite late in getting the kids ready and Scarlet off to her summer day camp. Everyone was in a tizzy and as a result Scarlet was atypically saying that she was "sick" and didn't want to go anywhere. It was not what I wanted to walk into.  I feel like I would've fired any sitter who had the kids an hour behind the schedule.  Bummer.

Monday August 11, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - I want to have a rental home secured yesterday and am having trouble as I really don't know much about areas. This project is about to get delegated (with a set time frame and firm deadline) to Mr. Erik.

Best Part of the Day - I had DVR'd the women's (let's use that term VERY loosely) gymnastics for the Olympics. It is amazing -these girls (correct term) are so great and cool under pressure and fun to watch. I love it when an announcer says "oh there's a mistake" and I'm thinking "WHERE?" I can't imagine the pressure they are under. One announcer said that one of the gals suffers from low self esteem. Hmmmm - baby, you're truly one in a million (and that's not me blowing smoke up your ass - it's the absolute truth.)

Monday August 11, 2008

Best Part of the Day-
I made serious headway regarding Scarlet's school shopping. I am new in the mom-school-shopping-role so I didn't know if I was too early or too late. Today worked out perfectly as mid-morning on a Monday is not a madhouse in the world of commerce. I found some great deals on the requested supplies from her teacher and also super duper cute outfits. (I am trying to avoid the Hannah Montana clothing craze--which of course, Scarlet covets though she has never even seen the show.) The first of billions of fads which I will confidently prohibit.

Worst Part of the Day-
I cannot locate my driver's license!!! It is now officially driving me nuts as I have looked everywhere and I am having the sinking feeling that I have to go to the (non-beloved) DMV soon.

Sunday August 10, 2008

Best Part(s) of the Day-

1.)  Slept in with high quality comforter which comforted me perfectly.

2).  Had brunch with luscious coffee!

3).  Saw brown-eyed friends' adorably blue-eye babe for the first time (he's 9 months--it had to happen)

4).  Rode around on back of other friend's motorcycle on this gorgeous day.  (I know, I know...I was pretty anti-motorcycles before today.  It was extremely fun.  I was smiling the entire time).

Worst Part of the Day-

This past January I removed all of the plastics from the home in a conscientious move to rid the potential cancer causing crap.  Our collection of kid dishes were disturbingly made with the bad plastics.  I've been using ceramic dishes ever since.  Now that we have hard wood floors in the dining area, Liam keeps gleefully throwing, thus smashing bowl after bowl and mug after mug.  I am all for doing what I can to keep my family cancer-free, but we have a rapidly diminishing supply of dishes and unending glass shards to vacuum up.  Bugging.  

Saturday August 9, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

A solo overnight trip to Chicago!!  To celebrate my dad's birthday, the immediate family met in Chicago for light shopping, dinner and drinks and of course, tennis watching.  Highly fun and great to see everyone!!  (Thank heaven my GI distress resolved this morn).

Bonus:  ate at my beloved Sultan's Market (ate there daily during pregnancy with Scarlet--a bit addicted, I was).  

Happy 62nd B-day, Dad!

Worst Part of the Day-

Was unable to see every one of my Chicago peeps on this trip due to schedule issues.  

Friday August 8, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

I noted some progress in my AM running crew today.  It was a gorgeous, crisp morning and the girls kept a consistent, quick pace with minimal griping.  

Worst Part of the Day-

I felt horrible pretty much all darn day.  I went so far as to cancel my coveted evening plans as I was certain that martinis would not assist with my current state of nausea and dizziness.  

Thursday August 7, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My parents volunteered to take the kids to the State Fair this late afternoon.   I had 3.5 hours to my bad self and the kids were returned smiley and winded.  My parents told tales of the fun: cows, goats, chickens in close proximity; Scarlet milked a goat (I secretly cringed), they went down the BIG slide twice with no hands; and S. even got harnessed up and jumped on a trampoline doing flips and the like. They even indulged in the non-heart healthy fair treats like hot dogs and cream puffs (fun for them as Mama don't play dat).

Worst Part of the Day-

At around 4:30pm I started feeling "yucky"--nauseous and dizzy.   

Most Hee-Hee Part of the Day-

After the State Fair I quickly bathed the kids and got the nighttime routine underway as they were technically late for bed.  After the teeth brushing Scarlet wanted to rinse her mouth but there weren't any cups at the sink side so I told her she could take a quick sip from the faucet. She paused and then said, "Dad says were shouldn't drink from the faucet."  I agreed and told her that is true but she could do it quickly as I wasn't going to get a cup from the kitchen right now.   She lapped up the water and that was that.

As I tucked her into bed I asked her what her favorite part of the day was.  I figured there was a ton to consider in light of the sixty awesome things they had just done at the State Fair.  She thought for a moment and then smiled, "Ummmm, my favorite part of the day was drinking right from the faucet--I loved that."  

Sunday August 10, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - It's cold. Now trust me - I love the chill of Autumn (it's my favorite season!). I love pulling on a fleece on chillier summer nights and love sleeping under lots of covers. But really? It's August freakin' tenth! And I was in the pool with the boyz and while the water was warm, but the wind? Not so much. And you know kiddos - they'd stay in all day with chattering teeth and blue lips. Me? Not so much. It took a bit for circulation to return to my fingertips. And you could just feel the sun trying to bring some warmth to the peeps of Western Michigan, but the wind being like "hells no. I want to blow."

Best Part of the Day - There was this Family Fun Day down at the yacht club. We took the boyz (IMP is still mad as hell about those canine teeth - he would ONLY nap today if I was laying down with him. I had just taken a much needed shower when he was up and out of bed and then had to lay down with him - you can imagine what my fro looked like). Anyhoo - against better judgement we took them both there and .... it was delightful. SB jumped on the Moon Walk, both ate popcorn and both enjoyed watching the dunk tank. It was the first time I saw IMP non lethargic or not crying in close to two days. A real treat,

- Congrats to Sista Sarah on her well done and well planned company picnic. And on her raise. Also SB did identify you in a photo. Your name is Hara, yes?

Saturday August 9, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - The Canines are coming! The Canines are coming! Now I've been blaming a lot of IMP's moodiness on these dern teeth (for MONTHS now) - but never have they appeared. Suddenly one has broken through (I can feel the point on his upper left incisor area). We've got a slight fever and finger (not the usual thumb) in mouth. Man is he mad about it.

Best Part of the Day - Had a great workout and the boyz took a great nap. Then at the end of the day my parents took the boyz for a walk and I was free to leisurely make them dinner and catch up on 20 minutes of Buffy.

Friday August 8, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Militant Sleep Re-Training Program backfires. SB notices I'm in his room (in the other twin bed) and comes over to have some snuggles at 4:30 a.m. Then he seems to be up for the day. I cajole him back to bed several times and suddenly it's 6 a.m. and IMP is up. Booooooooo.

Best Part of the Day - Took boyz to gym and then to Target (want to pick up my free reusable tote). They are good as gold. So good, I decide to get them lunch at Target (who knew! Target is the best lunch going for the pre-school set). They sit still for 12 straight minutes (who's counting?) and eat their lunch. Whew. Only minor complications getting SB away from the amazing automatic opening doors (he's seen them 100's o' times - when will it become old hat??)

ALSO - IMP got a gold star at the gym. When I picked him up the child care ladies all gathered 'round and told me he didn't cry once, he played the whole time and was joyful throughout. Man, they must have cringed every time prior when I brought him him.

Part of the Day When I Realize Maybe We've Overstayed Our Welcome - We get home at 1 p.m. after being gone since 9 a.m. I get IMP straight to bed and my mom takes SB on a walk (of her own volition, mind you). I head upstairs to get on the computer to check out some Charlotte rental places I've contacted. About 20 minutes later they come back. I come down and ask her if she would read SB his three books and put him to bed. And she says "well I've been with him a hour - but I GUESS so." I look at her and say "a hour?" And she says "well 45 minutes." Hmmm - I think it's about time for us to fly the coop.

Thursday August 7, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Had to do some house selling stuff - cancel phone, internet, cable, electric, water, gas .... and more to come.

Best Part of the Day - It was an organic (meaning not planned, just happened - not that I was eating arugula from the farmer's market) mama's day off! My parents took the boyz for a walk at 9:30 a.m. I went to the gym, the grocery store and to get a pedicure. I came home at 1:30 p.m. and put them to bed. Then THEY BOTH NAPPED UNTIL 4:45 p.m. (Cue angels singing.) I feel soooo much better.

Exciting - Erik leaves for Vegas tonight for a work trip. So jealous - can't wait until I get to have a work trip.

Wednesday August 6, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - IMP in "time out" five times before 8 a.m.

Best Part of the Day - Militant Sleep Re-Training is at work! IMP slept until 6 a.m. (of course he now is in the Queen bed that I used to sleep in and I am in a twin bed in SB's room ... so who is really winning this fight?) I feel refreshed, renewed, revitalized and some other re-words.

Troubling - Today while on our walk I point out a huge black ant to SB. He loves to watch ants and this one was a biggie. IMP comes over to see what we are looking at. He watches said ant for about 20 seconds and then stomps it with his Croc (as I yell "oh no!"). Then he picks it up (ugh!) and throws it to the side of the sidewalk. Then he buries it with sand. SB watches all of this and then throws some sand on top of it as well. RIP antie.

Tuesday August 5, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Just a long, weepy, whiny, afternoon coupled with trying to get lots of sh*t done on our impending (hopefully) move.
Also I did some cardio at the gym and went to just check on the boyz (hoping to do a bit more) and was handed a weepy IMP. Oh man.

Best Part of the Day - End of the day, me, a beer and Buffy on DVD. Same-o Lame-o.

Wednesday August 6, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

My medical assistant at work has been on vacation for a week-ish, so I have been doing her job which includes scheduling and taking the girls to medical appointments as their needs arise.  It has been pretty funny.  First of all, it allows me to spend some different type of time with the girls:  One-on-one and out in the community.  (And it is a super easy breezy gig).  Today as I was driving to the appointment, the to-be patient, S., asked if I would turn on the radio.  We rocked out to Lil Wayne with the moon roof open.  At a stoplight,  S. said "ooooh, Miss Megan, that man on your left is all up in your grill..."   I looked to the car on the left and saw a 40-ish man smiling at us and I just kept chair dancing.  Then S. said "oooh, Miss Megan--you're funny for an older lady."  I had to chuckle.  I gotta keep it real.

Worst Part of the Day-

I am applying to be an agency nurse.  It is very similar to my travel nursing gig, but I could just pick and choose hours that I want to work (as opposed to working 12 hour days for a contracted amount o' time).  It is good, in theory, as I could pop-in once a month to just get a small taste of the ER madness, chat with some hospital buds, and call it a day.  Oh yeah, the pay is also great. BUT I have been taking online test after test and seriously doing annoying math problems all night long.  This part bites.  Mostly 'cause in the present day, there are no more math problems in the ER setting--just pre-calculated reference sheets there for our medication-administering pleasure.  

Tuesday August 5, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

We are on top of the potty training, folks.  We have the potty, steps for little legs to easily access the pot, an enthusiastic team of trainers, AND a willing trainee.  Today (at Scarlet's almost maniacal insistence) Liam successfully peed in his mini-potty.  Cheers all around.  Fluke or beginner's luck???  We shall see.  I think he got the picture that we were pleased with his actions.

Worst Part of the Day-

Cannot find my driver's license!!!  Just had it.  Cannot put my hands on it.  (Gut instinct tells me I left it at the store...)

Most Inappropriate Laughter of the Day-

In this bonanza of toilet training, I guess it's easy to get confused--I walked into Scarlet's room and saw a naked Liam attempting to sit (as much as humanly possible) on the super mod toilet in Scarlet's Barbie Dream House (this is a dollhouse).  He was appropriately stating "poop in" and gesturing to poop in the 2-inch turquoise toilet.  I had to laugh, but Scarlet had her wits about her as she lambasted, "Don't you dare poop in that toilet, buddy!"  On the right track, I suppose.  (Or a very wrong one).

Monday August 4, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Major thunderstorms in the wee morn made it A-o.k. to skip the 6am jog!  (See?  Slacking already).  The storm made for great sleeping weather...

Worst Part of the Day-

The day was pretty gray and gloomy and I think the girls at work were feeling it.  Atypically, the lot of them were crabby, gripey and rude today.   And atypically I was there for 8-ish hours (how do you normal full-time workers do that every darn day?!)  Boo hiss.

Monday August 4, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Militant Sleep Re-Training necessary. IMP up at 4:06 a.m. insisting to be brought into bed with me. He lightly rested while ensuring I was still in the bed by digging his baby feet into my stomach. Pleasant. So, so, so very tired. Feeling like I have a newborn. Must buck up and begin to give tough love sleep wise to this one. UGH.

Best Part of the Day - Had the LoveBergs and Sarah around for most of the day. That was fun to get some extra family time.
AND we accepted and signed the offer on our home (we did get them to come up and meet us on price a tich - but they are still getting one hell o' a deal. Congrats soon to be home owners.) I think we are actually lucky to even be getting a buyer so we should just quit our bitchin' and move on. And so we shall. Now I just have to get the movers, pack up the house, figure out how to get to NC, how to get the kids to NC, how to get the dog to NC, how to ... oh hell! Can't I relish the contractual agreement for a day without the logistics bogging me down? Yes I can. I'm relishing away.

Sunday August 3, 2008

 In the mist
 Train w/Babs
Best Part of the Day-

Went to the zoo kinda impromptu with my mom and kiddies and a buddy and child.  It was an idyllic day weather-wise, we were all relaxed as we had no huge schedule--that is key to the outing success.  The kids looooved seeing the ani-mals (Liam called everything in the Ape House "monkeeeey" and could not quite fathom how cool that was).  We did it up on the playground, got cool in the misters, fed the goats, rode the train and merry-go-round carousel (note to self:  my vertigo-tendencies do not love going round and round...).  Whew.  

My mom put it right when she commented that going to these places with the kids really brings back the magic of childhood.   It's true that one forgets how thrilling the zoo can be.  Liam was so excited to be on the train.  Instead of screaming his head off to show his pleasure (like big sis) he was stock still and quietly alert the whole time taking in the unbelievable:  I live for trains.  I love to see trains.  I am on a train.  

At one point in the dairy farm area, Scarlet pointed in the direction of an 800 pound ox/yak/cow and said "Look, Mom, oh my gosh!"  Before I could confirm that yes, I see that huge animal (but I don't know exactly what that is), she gushed, "I can't believe it--real hay bales!!"  She ran up to admire the straw bales through the fence while completely ignoring the massive beast sweating beside it.  Ya never know what will get ya at the zoo.  For me it was the cherry slushie on our way out.  Good day.

Worst Part of the Day-

I take pride in never paying bills late.  Never say never.  I just found a bill (sitting in a pile in a decorative bowl---arrrgh.  Sometimes I put papers and mail and clutter in random decorative bowls to get them out of my sight!) and it was due 8/1.  Though I paid it online immediately after tearing it open, it still is late.  

Sunday August 3, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - You know how I'm always going on about how naughty my little IMP is? Well now I have about eight people who can collaborate my story. That kid! The Fritz Gast's came out and IMP must have thought "wow a really BIG audience!" He knocked over lights, danced on tables, tipped over chairs, banged on screens, threw minor tantrums, refused to eat dinner .... it was unreal. I could feel my blood pressure arisin'. But in a weird way it did make me feel better that everyone could see how hard he is to deal with at times (because sometimes you have to wonder if you are just a whiner - which, okay, I can be, but this kiddos is something else!)

Best Part of the Day - Tried to make a sandcastle with Sister Sarah and the LoveBergs (our new nickname for Joe and Stacey) and it was a disaster! But fun (and the new nickname makes up for a LOT). Also having the Gasts (minus Cousin Eric) was soooo fun. Amy and Jennie entertained the boyz along with Joe, Stacey and Sarah. SB got a Macatawa Days certificate for completing the Fun Run and he knew it was something special. He kept pointing out his name and hugging it to his chest (ahhh - the first of many awards for mediocrity. But it was adorable to see him so psyched over it.) Lovely dinner care of Ginny and .... the buyers did come up a tich on their offer on the NH house. We might just have to suck it up and take it.

Saturday August 2, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Feel a tich hungover today. We were out until 12:30 hanging with friends and then IMPsky got me up at 5:30 a.m. Blech. Not a good combination.

Best Part of the Day - We had sooo much fun today. Sarah participated in the Slow Bike Race (she was robbed!) and SB completed the 1/4 mile fun run with my parents. We went to the pool all morning and then to the beach all afternoon. The kiddos were good n' tired. The babysitter arrived and we headed out to the Macatawa Days adults only party. So much fun (but o so tired!)

Friday August 1, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - Sister Sarah and I had a lovely time at Pilates (okay - it sucked, but still we worked out). But ze IMP got us - we had just begun our cardio (after the Pilates) when my pager went off. D'OH!
Also Joe had a work crisis and I waited outside for him for an hour (while I had a babysitter! That's a nightmare!)

Best Part of the Day - Joe and Stacy arrived. Sarah got in last night. SOOO many hands on deck. It's a cinch with the kiddos. Uncle Joe is a Party Clown on 'roids. He entertained the hell out of the kids on the beach all afternoon. Then we had a babysitter come on over and we all went out for a leisurely meal at the Yacht Club. So nice to just chat away and not be worrying about the kiddos knocking someone's food off a tray.

Saturday August 2, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

The kidlets came home this evening and they were so happy and excited to see me (and I them!!)  Liam kept saying Mamamamama with a gigantic grin on his face--like "gee, I always liked you and hoped I would see you again and here you are--what a pleasant surprise!"  From all reports all 3 had a perfect time with zero behavior (whining, tantrum) issues and had a blast swimming and playing and eating.  Well done, Papa Will-O!

Worst Part of the Day-

Will-O and I never fully confirmed their ETA today.  I guessed it would be sometime between 4pm and 7pm.  Will-O's phone was off so I wasn't able to get through (my pet peeve) despite my 90 stalker calls.  I was just trying to plan my afternoon/eve AND I needed verbal confirmation of safe/smooth traveling en route to home.  

They did arrive home close to 8pm and all of my semi-nervous waiting and waiting for an update call (my issue) made me skip a much coveted late day nap.

Friday August 1, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Divine deliciousness of livin like a college student on summer break...slept in, worked out, read the paper leisurely, watched Oprah...stumbled upon the 'Summer Sizzle' fest in the Third Ward for drinks and more in the eve. 

Worst Part of the Day-

OMG!   Was stung by 5th wasp/hornet (still don't know the diff) of the summer and of my lifetime.  Confirmed there is a wasp/hornet nest underneath the garbage can behind the garage. (Making it less of a random, strange occurrence).  Boy does it sting and sting and then itch and itch.  

Thursday July 31, 2008

Worst Part of the Day - We had the kiddos in a restaurant for breakfast this morning and it was not a relaxing meal. Although I suggested Panera for the excursion (a little more friendly to kiddos wandering around), my dad wanted a breakfast breakfast. And that is fine, but boy is it hard to keep these little boyz seated and quiet and happy.

Best Part of the Day - My mom and I took the boyz to this Deanna's House place. It was amazing - really huge with brand new everything (it was kind of like a children's museum type place). They ran and ran and played and played and it was hilarious.
Also Sister Sarah and Joe and his wife come in tonight - let the Macatawa Days begin!

Thursday July 31, 2008

Best Part of the Day-

Will-O took the kids on a 2.5 day visit to see his dad (who is in his 80's and is somewhat ailing). This is all part of Phase 1 Lesson:  How to do things independently (without spouse doing all initiating, planning and coordinating.)  Though I did book the hotel online, print directions, get the car an oil change, and pack Liam's bag, the trip itself is a good start for Will-O.  Even broaching the subject of taking both kidlets on a road trip alone was a HUGE step for him.  So today it came to fruition.  The traveling party of 3 was happy and energetic and excited about the 4-hour car journey to the hotel, restaurants and ultimately a nice visit with Grandpa Bill.  

And I was happy and energetic and excited about some serious downtime.  I worked from 6am-9am and then proceeded to I have the most delicious day of napping, mild home cleaning, ('cause no one will be able to mess it up!) and even went as far as eating fatty fun foods like chips with dip and having a few beers while watching network t.v.  Have not had this much "me" time in eons. Who knew beer and french onion dip could be oh so healing?  

Worst Part of the Day-

Really?  Is July 2008 coming to a close?  

Funniest Scarlet Quip of the Day-

Of course Scarlet has packed her own bags for years and today was no exception.  So as she packs, I try to discreetly supervise as no one likes a micro-manager.  At one point I saw her trying to shove a full-length gown (like something she may wear as a flower girl in a wedding) into her travel bag.  I questioned it as I thought it may be a bit much for a casual summer jaunt to northern Wisconsin.  Scarlet's reply:  "I haven't seen Grandpa Bill for awhile and I just want him to see what a mature young lady I am now."  She won, the gown got to go.   She will be the best dressed patron in the restaurant attached to the Holiday Inn.